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An “unwanted pregnancy” does NOT equal an “unwanted child”

September 14, 2015 by Faye Sonier 6 Comments

I love the honesty of this post. I’m not Catholic but there is much to appreciate in this blogger’s words:

Some of us may be tempted to feel like we are ‘bad Catholics’ if we aren’t feeling over the moon when we see those double pink lines of a new pregnancy. Then when we get around to announcing the baby, and people say “Congratulations!” we are thinking cynically: Yeah, really. But we can’t express our misgivings. We smile politely and make some joke about God’s sense of humor while inwardly feeling devastated. Our fears may be physical, mental, financial, emotional… whatever the case may be, we do NOT want to admit to our good, Catholic friends—much less to our hostile non-Catholic family— that the idea of more children is gut-wrenching.

So we all move along in this faux reality of a Catholicism where being open-to-life means everyone is giddy about being pregnant when it happens.

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How can we testimony to women who are experiencing fear or doubt over an unwanted pregnancy if we are afraid to empathize with them? So often women just want to feel like they aren’t alone. They want to have hope that it will indeed be okay. How can they know that if we aren’t open about living it? As far as they can tell, if you aren’t thrilled about a pregnancy, you will never want your child. What pity! What a lie!

Woman facing sun

What a little honesty can do…assure us we are not alone…and hint that things may in fact get better.

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  1. Andrea Mrozek says

    September 15, 2015 at 8:25 am

    I’m not sure why it’s so hard to keep it real in this world. It may be all the Facebook pressure of perfectly planned parties and cutesie YouTube announcements when someone is pregnant.

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