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Freedom of conscience is a duty

July 9, 2013 by Faye Sonier 2 Comments

Here is the speech given to the Irish parliament by the young Minister of State for European Affairs Lucinda Creighton on why she no longer supports abortion. Ireland is currently considering legislation to legalize abortion. Creighton covers a number of important points in her speech. She addresses whether she is anti-woman for being against abortion, discusses how this is a human rights issues, and explains that as an elected official, it is her duty to exercise her freedom of conscience:

I’ve had people contact me in recent months condemning me for having a “moral” or ethical concern about abortion. Some demanded that I leave my morals or conscience aside in order to support abortion. Now I must say that I find this bizarre.

There is an emerging consensus in Ireland which suggests that having a sense of morality has something to do with the Catholic Church. It is automatically assumed that if you consult your conscience, you are essentially consulting with Rome. This is deeply worrying. It is a lazy way of attempting to undermine the worth of an argument, without actually dealing with the substance. This is not just a Catholic issue, any more than it is a Protestant or Muslim issue. This is not a religious issue. It is a human rights issue.

I wonder what one should consult when voting on a fundamental human rights issue such as this, if not ones own conscience? My personal view is that all I can do, when making a decision on life and death, and that is what we are considering here, is consult my conscience, which is based on my sense of what is right and what is wrong. What else can I consult? The latest opinion poll? The party hierarchy? The editor of the most popular newspaper?

Lucinda

I mentioned groupthink, which is a corrosive affliction in this country. We saw it in the Haughey era, we saw it during the Celtic Tiger era, and we see it on this question of abortion. It is easy to understand why people in positions of responsibility want thorny issues to simply disappear. It is far easier than risking conflict, unpopularity or worse; paying the price for speaking up…

Wouldn’t the country have been much better served in the 2000s, had more people on the Government benches, in academia, or in the media been prepared to raise their heads above the parapet? I am sure that there were many conscientious objectors who realised that what was happening was wrong, yet they all remained reticent to avoid the wrath of their colleagues, the public, their bosses, the media and so on. Conscience lost out, and the country suffered greatly.

We all have the right to conscientious objection. It is enshrined in Article 18 of the United Nations, Universal Declaration on Human Rights which states :

“Everyone has the right to freedom of thought, conscience and religion….”

I contend that this freedom of conscience is not just a right, but also a duty.

Minister of State for European Affairs Lucinda Creighton – See more at: http://www.mercatornet.com/articles/view/down_with_stifling_groupthink_says_irish_minister#sthash.bq40ESH7.dpufMinister of State for European Affairs Lucinda Creighton
Minister of State for European Affairs Lucinda Creighton – See more at: http://www.mercatornet.com/articles/view/down_with_stifling_groupthink_says_irish_minister#sthash.bq40ESH7.dpuf
Minister of State for European Affairs Lucinda Creighton – See more at: http://www.mercatornet.com/articles/view/down_with_stifling_groupthink_says_irish_minister#sthash.bq40ESH7.dpuf

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Society’s expectations

July 8, 2013 by Faye Sonier Leave a Comment

Dustin Hoffman cries through the end of this interview when he discusses the expectations put on women by society and what he learned after the make-up test for Tootsie.  The interview clip is about 3 minutes long.

A quote from the interview:

She doesn’t fulfill physically the demands that we are brought up to… think that women have to have for us to ask them out.

There are too many interesting women I have…not had the experience to know in this life because I have been brainwashed.

What do you think?

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What is leading to the demise of guys?

July 8, 2013 by Faye Sonier 8 Comments

It turns out that it’s porn and video games. In four minutes, Philip Zimbardo explains:

 

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“Morally confused and willfully self-deceptive”

July 5, 2013 by Faye Sonier 3 Comments

“We made sure our son was not born only to suffer. He died in a warm and loving place, inside me,” she writes. This is surely one of the most morally confused and willfully self-deceptive sentences ever published in a major American newspaper. It might be the most painful thing I have ever read. You will not be surprised to learn that Times commenters lauded Nicastro for her courage and showered her with compassion. Not one mentioned her departed son.

Yup.

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Check out our comments section, people!

July 5, 2013 by Faye Sonier 6 Comments

We have some great regulars who continue the conversation in our comment sections, as well as people who drop in from time to time. Come join the conversation!

(The comment section debates are more interesting than a one-on-one with a fire hydrant. And for the record, Andrea has better taste in scarves. You don’t know what you’re missing.)

Conversation
photo credit: ohhector via photopin cc

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Back-alley births?

July 5, 2013 by Faye Sonier 5 Comments

There are consequences to any choice. Dr. Donald DeMarco addresses a few of the consequences of abortion and an abortion culture:

Joyce Arthur, coordinator of the Abortion Rights Coalition of Canada complained when actress Nicole Kidman announced to the press that she was “thrilled” at being pregnant.  Ms. Arthur wants pregnant women to be less positive about their pregnancies:  “It certainly shows any young woman watching these movies or following these celebrities that the best option is to have the baby and it glorifies that choice.”  The choice to abort brings with it a prohibition of any public display of maternal joy.  One choice annuls another.  We must not glorify choices.  We want to make all choices perfectly free of any outside influence.  This would mean, incidentally, the logical end of commercial advertising. Nonetheless, this is a strange request coming from an organization that has done everything it could to influence the choice of abortion.  The choice for abortion, indeed, as Elshtain has remarked, does bring with it a considerable array of constraints and compulsions. […]

When the choice to abort is regarded as a form of “care,” the consequences can be catastrophic.  Concerning Obama’s Affordable Care Act, W. Ross Blackburn, rector of an Anglican fellowship, raises an interesting question:  “When decisions about what is and what is not covered by insurance are made by an appointed administrator with a medical sheet in one hand and a balance sheet in the other, what will happen to children whose prognosis is bleak, and treatment is expensive?” (The Human Life Review, Fall 2012)  Does it make sense to deliver a child who requires expensive medical treatment that is not covered by the Affordable Care Act?  Rev. Blackburn fears that ultimately the back-alley abortion will be replaced by the back-alley birth!  Will his words written in 2012 prove prophetic 25 years from now?

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“Hoes before embryos” and pro-choice messaging tactics

July 4, 2013 by Faye Sonier 10 Comments

Yesterday Andrea wrote about the pro-choice mob chanting “Hail Satan” outside the Texas legislature. I read a few articles this morning on the story, and caught some other, unbelievable pro-choice messaging. A sample:

Exhibit A: A parent or guardian permitted their child to carry the following sign:”If I wanted the government in my womb, I would **** a senator.”

Exhibit B: A teen carries a sign that reads “Hoes before embryos.”

Exhibit C: Pro-choice activists spat on pro-lifers and threw cigarette butts at them.

As a member of the pro-life movement, I frequently engage in messaging meetings with other interested pro-life parties. I know that a movement cannot require that all members abide by certain communications standards. I also acknowledge the rights to freedom of speech and expression, even though I (we) sometimes wish certain individuals didn’t attempt to advance the pro-life cause with questionable or nonsensical placards or banners. And of course, as in any movement, there is a small minority of extremists who definitely do not represent the whole.

But bizarre, distasteful  and lewd communications seems to be a general mainstay of at least a significant portion of the pro-choice movement, like the signs or chants used above. As is the assault of persons by spitting on them and throwing objects at them. At this rally, it was cigarette butts. At last year’s March for Life in Ottawa, pro-choice activists were whipping condoms at pro-lifers.

Over the years of attending pro-life rallies, I’ve seen pro-choice demonstrators appear topless. I remain unsure as to what message that advances. I’ve witnessed lewd gestures, posters and chants. Again, I remain at a loss as to how those means assist the pro-choice movement in advancing their position.

I’m not one of those few pro-lifers who thinks pro-choicers are idiotic or thoughtless. I have friends and associates who have thought through their position and still support unlimited abortion access. I think they’re wrong, but I acknowledge that they’ve thoughtfully reflected on the issue. And there are arguments for the pro-choice position that I don’t agree with, but that are sophisticated, like Judith Jarvis Thomson’s violinist argument. There are reasons why there are a number of philosophical and apologetic pro-life books and essays. One of them is that pro-lifers have taken the other side’s arguments, thought them through and responded to them. There are some very brainy people who make up a portion of the pro-choice movement, including its leadership.

I don’t understand how a movement that does include some good thinkers can produce such consistently ill-advised messaging. I also don’t understand how a movement that claims to advance its cause in the name of rights, respect and the protection of women from violence can assault women with cigarettes butts and saliva, and refer to women as “hoes.” Which philosophy under-girds a movement that consistently exhibits these behaviours at events across the continent? It seems to be a philosophy that fails to assign respect equally to all members of society, including women who don’t agree with their position.

If pro-choice leaders don’t believe that assault and lewd slogans should define their movement, why aren’t they condemning these actions? At the very least, condemning the spitting and throwing of objects at people? And keep in mind that in Canada, spitting on someone can be considered an assault under criminal law. The law appears to be similar in the US. These are matters not to be taken lightly.

h/t LifeSiteNews

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Pictures that brought me to tears

July 2, 2013 by Faye Sonier Leave a Comment

This is the story of little Walter Joshua Fretz, who was born at 19 weeks and only lived a few minutes. His parents, photographers, took pictures of this little beauty being held by his family during the few minutes he lived. In the words of his mother,

He was born at 9:42 PM and he was handed up to me as soon as his cord was clamped. I was crying so hard at this point but he was perfect. He was fully formed and everything was there, I could see his heart beating in his tiny chest. Joshua and I both held him and cried over him and looked over our perfect, tiny son.[,,,]

I am so very glad that Joshua went to our vehicle and got my camera. At first I did not want any photos, but they are the only thing I have to look back on now. I’m still in shock at how much his photos have been shared and commented on. In his short life of just a few minutes he has touched more lives then I ever could have imagined. I have gotten messages from people all around the country who have experienced a loss or were just touched by his story. I’ve even had a few people tell me that they were able to use his photos to reach out to a hurting woman who was contemplating an abortion. Just because the child within can not be seen by us does not mean that it is a blob of cells. Walter was perfectly formed and very active in the womb. If he had just a few short more weeks he would have had a fighting chance at life. I don’t understand why the Lord took him home, but I have to trust in his perfect timing. I may never know why, but it is a comfort to know where he is and that I will see him again. For now, he’s with his heavenly father who loves him unmeasurably more then I, as his earthly mother ever could.

The pictures are stunning and beautiful. I start to sob each time I remember the pictures of Walter, his eyes closed, resting in his mother’s arms.

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Happy Canada Day and all that

June 27, 2013 by Faye Sonier Leave a Comment

Andrea and I are off until next Tuesday or Wednesday.  Have a lovely weekend!

Fireworks

Photo credit.

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One darn loving and effective pro-life iniative

June 25, 2013 by Faye Sonier 4 Comments

These hip young people park a gorgeous van in front of abortion clinics and offer free ultrasounds to pregnant women. The results?

EMC had a bus equipped with a sonogram machine. By approaching women outside the clinic with the offer of free help, with no mention of a pro-life ideology, they were able to see a staggering success rate. In fact, by their estimate, about 70% of women who got on the bus for a sonogram decided not to abort. In one day, they saw nine women decide on life for their children.

They did some simple math, and realized that if this success continued, 15 to 25 women a week, or about 800 a year, would choose life.

And they offer a full range of options and choices to women who choose to keep their children:

So now this woman, who was going to go into an abortion clinic, is able to have a pregnancy test and a sonogram without ever reaching its doors.

But what happens now? She’s heard, “Yes, you’re pregnant! You’re this far along! There’s your baby! Here’s his heartbeat!”

So what does she hear next? “Good luck with that?”

Nope. Save the Storks is directly connected to Get Involved for Life and the two pregnancy centers it operates in Dallas, one uptown and one downtown. Also, needless to say, any expectant mother will be welcomed by whatever pregnancy center is closest to the bus at the time. The Stork team is prepared to call a cab for the mother if she needs a ride.

In other words, unlike the abortion clinic, the Storks and the pregnancy centers are in it for the long haul. They are going to get her what she needs to take care of herself and her baby, body and soul.

In sum,

What is the battle cry of the pro-abortion movement? “Choice!” It is their mantra. What do you constantly hear from abortion advocates? “These desperate women feel like they are out of options.”

Right here, on four wheels, parked in front of the clinic, is another choice — one they might not even know they have. Inside that bus is an image of their baby waiting to be seen. Connected to that bus is a support system — in short, options.

Dave and the team have high hopes, and they should. The approach is breathtakingly simple and, if early tests are any indication, profoundly effective.

This is a ministry I could get behind. It’s kind, loving, pro-woman, pro-life, and truly effective.

For more information on Save the Storks, you can visit their website here.

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