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T-shirt outrage and Western feminism

November 19, 2014 by Faye Sonier 2 Comments

Robyn Urback tackles the same issue I addressed yesterday:

It’s quite reasonable to suggest that Taylor’s shirt wasn’t exactly the most professional choice of clothing for an interview, but I’ll let his employer reprimand him for that. It’s less reasonable to suggest that a shirt — a shirt — can drive women away from pursuing careers in science and technology… Taylor’s critics have also claimed that his clothing creates a toxic work environment for women. That may be true; again, I have no idea. But I’d wager it’s more toxic to suggest that women are so frail, of such feeble resolve, that they can be derailed from scientific careers by a printed T-shirt. […]

Whatever point Taylor’s critics are trying to make about workplace social climate is being overshadowed by how ridiculous the whole thing seems: man achieves remarkable scientific feat, social justice warriors complain about his T-shirt. The unintended consequence is that it reinforces all the negative stereotypes about privileged Western feminists; that they are humourless, hysterical and forever sweating the small stuff, with few “real” issues of equality left to worry about.

The outrage over Matt Taylor’s wardrobe will certainly change people’s actions; I assume most scientists will stick to a jacket and tie from now on. But will it change perceptions of feminists; this fury over Taylor’s error — ill-timed, and ill-delivered as it was? I’d say certainly not. Indeed, I suspect it will do just the opposite.

Oh, Western feminism. Find your way home again. There are some battles – real battles – for you to fight.

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Who is “he” in this quote?

November 18, 2014 by Andrea Mrozek 4 Comments

He maintained that politics is about values, starting with moral values. The primary guardians of these values are not states or political organizations but free individuals endowed with a sense of responsibility.”

[Tweet “What politician might say politics is about moral values? Step right up and take a guess!”] (No googling.) 

I will reveal the answer shortly.

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The right to wear tank tops and other stupid feminist battles

November 18, 2014 by Faye Sonier 1 Comment

In May, I released a long sigh of frustration over “feminist” fights against “sexist” dress code policies which prevent girls from showing their black bra straps at school. I should also note that dramatic eye rolling accompanied the sighing. I’m not going to re-hash how much of the “feminist” debate over dress codes is rather ridiculous. There’s a good article by Trent Horn which examines the fallacies involved in the “dress code debates.” I’ll let Horn do the talking.

Rather than telling society that women need to kill their children in order to be equal, or arguing that high school girls must be allowed to show their bra straps in order to experience equality, perhaps as feminists we could chose to fight other battles. And perhaps we could teach our daughters, those who are organizing rallies and talking to the press about their ‘right’ to wear short shorts at school, about real human rights violations and sexism being experienced by women. We could help them focus their energies on calling for change that would save women’s lives and protect them from abuse. What a thought.

Girls

The following articles raise practices or trends that feminists could call out, and encourage others to join their fight. Some feminists are already raising their voices in support of women and girls affected by the atrocities and practices mentioned in the articles below. I hope that those women fighting for the right to wear short shorts in Western high schools feel compelled to refocus their energies.

These three stories were published in the last few days:

Child marriages draw scrutiny from Ottawa: “The most recent report by New York-based Human Rights Watch interviewed 135 girls and women across Tanzania and concluded that the practice of forced marriage – involving girls as young as seven in some cases – was causing serious harm because of gaps in the country’s child protection system.”

Fighting Female Genital Mutilation: “Egyptian government figures put the rate of female genital mutilation among women ages 15 to 49 at 91 percent. Among teenagers 15 to 17, it is 74 percent.”

Winnipeg conference to examine ‘pornification’ of kids: “The message to girls is that the way to show they’re liberated is to just take it. Whether someone feels any pleasure is irrelevant in a pornified context.”

These stories make the black bra strap fights look rather silly, don’t they?

photo credit: Tamara Álvarez via photopin cc

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Life’s real angels

November 17, 2014 by Natalie Sonnen 1 Comment

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True love is infectious, and nothing could be more fetching than seeing love emanating from a big, happy family.

This family is particularly special.  Janet and Keith accepted their first son, born with severe disabilities, with so much love that the experience of caring for him opened their hearts to later adopting another little girl with Down Syndrome.  This would be their third child.

The example of friends who had adopted three siblings with Downs also inspired them to adopt and they went on to adopt and foster dozens of disabled children.

Their own love and example inspired family members to open their homes to adoption and foster care.  What a beautiful testimony to the wonder and beauty of all human life.

This week I will have the opportunity to view this movie, about a pastor and his wife who did something similar to Janet and Keith. Again, through the acceptance and love that they gave to their son born with severe disabilities, they became open to the lives of other abandoned and disabled children.

The movie DropBox is about their journey from regular parents to heroic lovers of life and the little children who come to them through a tiny door built into the side of their home.

May the world be graced with many, many more people like them.

 

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Egg freezing and choices that make us less free

November 17, 2014 by Faye Sonier 2 Comments

Margaret Somerville tackles the ethical questions raised by egg freezing. Her review of the issue again makes clear that some reproductive “choices” offered to women leave us with fewer real choices and less freedom:

However, as Seema Mohapatra points out in an article in the Harvard Law and Policy Review, offering egg freezing could mean women who choose not to postpone childbearing might be seen as not sufficiently committed to their career, thus harming their progress. Do such coercive possibilities mean a decision to postpone is not autonomous and free? Is that also true if a woman’s parents offer to pay for freezing and storage, because they want to ensure they will have grandchildren?

I read some medical and sociological journal articles a few weeks on the impact of abortion on women. Guess what? Since abortion on demand has been available, a significant number of women have felt coerced and pressured into abortion by partners, parents, friends and their medical practitioners. They felt trapped and hopeless. Even indifference by partners and family or hearing the refrain “we’ll support whatever you choose” made many feel like they were alone in their circumstances and that they had no real choice in the matter.

Sometimes a choice offered to us really isn’t a true choice.

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Why it is good to feel lonely from time to time

November 14, 2014 by Andrea Mrozek 8 Comments

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I recently saw a Harry Truman quote: “If you want a friend in Washington, get a dog.”

Strikes me as being true in our culture at large. We are busy, busy, busy–going to and from social events of all kinds, but making few meaningful connections.

Being lonely is different from being alone, of course. Being alone can be edifying in many different ways. All too often our culture equates being alone with loneliness. Sometimes there is overlap.

The reason why I think feeling lonely is good is because it reminds us of the plight of those who are more lonely. Happy socializing people rarely stop to ponder whether the person in the drugstore is having a good day or not. Helping someone can stand out in a person’s mind for a long time, particularly if they are lonely.

I remember when I landed in Berlin for the year–and suddenly, after months of planning–wondered just what I was doing there. I wondered who had made this foolish decision. (Of course it was me. Makes it harder to lay blame.)

Working in the library one day, I couldn’t find the stacks I was looking for. So I asked someone. He looked at me, looked at what I was looking for and looked at me again. Then he simply said (in German), “I’ll show you.” He proceeded to take me up and down stairs and down and around long, winding corridors. When we finally landed where I needed to be about ten minutes later, he said a simple, “here.” And left.

That was in 1998 and I still remember, clear as day. I wanted to hug him, but Germans don’t do that sort of frivolous thing.

Loneliness reminds us of our longing for the eternal. Which is actually a longing for God. Which is another reminder that when we think we are alone, we are actually not.

All this to say, feeling lonely reminds us to reach out, and there are always people who need to be reached out to. Those of us who have the capacity ought to do so. To new immigrants, people for whom every last thing is new and strange. To people who live on the streets without a loving home or stable family. And even to people who think they are really busy and important as they hustle about from cocktail party to reception, but in reality live empty lives.

There are lots of people, everywhere, always–who appreciate being shown their way to the right stacks!

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This struggle is not the end of your story

November 13, 2014 by Faye Sonier Leave a Comment

I just read another great article over at Brain, Child. The writer, Suzanne Palmieri, was a single mother, living in poverty with her daughter. In her article, she looks back over the last 20 years that they spent together, commenting on how their lives had changed.

Our life’s circumstances are seldom static and often changing. We don’t know what is just around the corner; beautiful things may be just beyond the bend. Or they may already be before us if we look closely. She did.

During the darker days, I read poems by Mary Oliver. One shining quote made the difference: “What is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?”

My answer, then, now and always is this: I will not drown.

Mother, Child

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“You can still accomplish your dreams as a single mom”

November 13, 2014 by Faye Sonier Leave a Comment

As this video from Online for Life testifies, pregnancy care centres are doing the good work of supporting and encouraging women in making decisions for life.

This woman facing an unplanned pregnancy and difficult circumstances had the opportunity to meet with the counsellors at a not-for-profit pregnancy care centre 11 times before making her decision. Eleven times. That’s dedication and care.

“I chose life. He’s here. It was a long journey, but we made it.”

Beautiful.

Autumn Road

 

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Women die in botched sterilizations

November 12, 2014 by Natalie Sonnen Leave a Comment

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I hate to be the bearer of bad news, especially when tragedy of this scope could have been avoided.

This Reuters article reports on ten women who died this week in India through botched sterilizations.  Fourteen other women are in serious condition.

But deaths due to sterilization is not news in India.

Between 2009 and 2012, the government paid compensation for 568 deaths resulting from sterilization, the health ministry said in an answer to a question in parliament two years ago.

What grieves me most is that these women were undergoing sterilizations presumably because they already had children and couldn’t afford to have more.  That means that there are countless little children who have lost their mothers, in a country that is already hampered by disease and poverty.  What will the prospects be for their lives now?

Essentially these mothers have perished and their children’s lives have been substantially impoverished all because of ignorance; ignorance of the benefits and the life saving potential of Natural Family Planning.

We need to take a page out of the book of a little Saint, Mother Teresa.

Rather than trying to secure funds for condoms, hormonal contraception, clinics, and medical personnel to run the clinics, the Missionaries of Charity (the religious order founded by Mother Teresa) simply taught the people Natural Family Planning (NFP).

Most people roll their eyes at the mere suggestion of NFP, but wait, do they know about the successes of this simple, easy to learn method in some of the poorest nations of the world?  In 1993, the British Medical Journal published a study regarding the effectiveness of NFP in India.*

This blogger writes regarding this very study:

In India, where the poor learned NFP and relied on abstinence during the fertile phase, a study of 19,483 poor women had a pregnancy rate of less than 1%.

Further to that, she confirms what the Reuters article made obvious; that women are coerced into receiving these dangerous sterilizations through various means.  NFP however, seems not only to empower women to understand how their bodies work, but it also exempts them from government pressure.

The benefits they received went beyond the ability to plan their family size, however. Mercedes Wilson tells of how women in India would be dragged away and forcibly sterilized against their will. Women could be spared this violation, however, by carrying a card with them that stated they used NFP. In this instance, not only were the poor empowered with the knowledge of their own bodies, its use also protected them against government abuse.

*R.E.J. Ryder, “‘Natural Family Planning’: Effective Birth Control Supported by the Catholic Church,” British Medical Journal. 307 (18 September 1993).

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The Repeal of Reticence

November 12, 2014 by Andrea Mrozek 1 Comment

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This thought of the day courtesy of an old interview with Rochelle Gurstein, author of The Repeal of Reticence. The whole interview speaks to me, as I consider how it is that we got to be where we are. (Where are we, you ask? Base reality TV shows as entertainment, lewd advertising and crass lyrics, ramped up sexuality everywhere and what’s worse, some folks advocating for it as freeing.)

Before the turn of the century, people could only speak about sexual intimacy as either lust or love-it had a moral component built into it. What the sex reformers tried to do in the name of freeing people from Freudian neuroses was to split off sex from the valuation of shame or lust or love. This didn’t make sense to the party of reticence. They rejected the notion that we start with a fact of biology and then clothe it with some kind of value. Rather, the value and the fact are one.

Filed Under: Featured Posts, Feminism Tagged With: Rochelle Gurstein

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