In the Globe and Mail! Yes, the Globe and Mail:
And meanwhile for you, refuse to play the part of the whining, insecure girlfriend who debases herself by waiting around for a guy who regularly makes her feel like the least important part of his life.
I have played this part. And I have friends who have played this part. It’s quite common. And really, there need be no drama. A guy is either into you, or he’s not. And if he’s not, his loss. If he is, you should not need to wait for him. (By the phone. On Christmas Day. Not that that’s ever happened to me.)
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My friend likes to say: “he passed the stupid test with flying colours.” that has definitely coaxed me right outta that role!
The old man, slow of foot and with a long beard vaguely recalled hearing that before the self-esteem machine was invented, people would build up each other’s self esteem. “Neat thing about old people,” Estelle said, “they remember stuff.” The old man stood a bit taller, straighter.
Why is the Almighty, Loving Creator making me wait so long to meet my wonderful spouse? I don’t know. He hasn’t told me why. Maybe I need to learn more, and be patient. We need to believe that God keeps Him promises. In the mean time, keep looking for that wonderful man.