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It’s called “peer orientation”, and it’s not good

July 11, 2009 by Brigitte Pellerin 3 Comments

Gabor Maté, in the Ottawa Citizen, on why we shouldn’t rush into “full-day learning”:

The child’s brain is programmed by nature to attach, to connect — but it will connect to anyone, whoever is around. And who is around for our kids from an early age? Other kids. In the absence of the nurturing adult, our children connect with one another, a process psychologist Gordon Neufeld has termed “peer orientation.” The result is developmental disaster.

For the first time in history, we have the mass phenomenon of many children being more influenced by their peers than by mature, caring adults. The Ontario day care proposals, which in many cases will extend the time children are away from their primary caregivers, raise the risk of accelerating the destructive processes of peer orientation. Full day early schooling is, potentially, a recipe for peer orientation and its attendant negative consequences.

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  1. Jean says

    July 11, 2009 at 9:39 am

    “…which in many cases will extend the time children are away from their primary caregivers…”

    This might be true if kids were with primary caregivers in the first place. Isn’t it more likely that most kids will be going from half-day kindergarten/half-day daycare to full-day kindergarten? In that case, what difference does it make?

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  2. Shawn Abigail says

    July 11, 2009 at 10:37 am

    Yes, but it is inexpensive daycare, so it will be popular.

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  3. Barbara says

    July 11, 2009 at 3:06 pm

    I believe the real reason the government wants to switch to full day kindergarten has to do with pressure from people who do not want to have to pay for half-day daycare any longer…this has nothing to do with what is best for children and everything to do with what some parents want for their pocketbooks…

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