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Hurray for the Toronto Star!

January 18, 2016 by Andrea Mrozek 2 Comments

They start this article with pro-life talking points:

When a man and a woman of a certain age have unprotected sex, there is always the possibility a baby will be made. Such are the facts of life with which, one would assume, a doctor is familiar.

Yes indeed.

But read the article. I was bemused reading it, that a grown adult, a physician, would launch a lawsuit for this:

And yet a 42-year-old Toronto physician recently tried to sue a woman with whom he’d had a casual sexual relationship for more than $4 million in damages, claiming “non-pathological emotional harm of an unplanned parenthood.”

Here’s what the physician was unhappy about, at age 42:

To use the language of the statement of claim, PP was emotionally harmed because he was deprived of the choice of falling in love, marrying, enjoying married life and, when he and his wife thought ‘the time was right,’ having a baby,” the judge wrote in his 18-page ruling.

The man is a cad and an idiot, who passed med school. Scary.

However, he is only buying into what he’s been told his whole life… that sex need not result in babies, that sex is an itch to be scratched, something nice that comes no strings attached and that ultimately, we can all plan parenthood. (Where have I heard that phrase before?)

It is only in a world where women get the ultimate and arbitrary right to do away with or keep babies based on how they feel that a lawsuit such as this can get off the ground. They obviously felt they had a chance, and quite frankly, I would have thought they did too.

I’m sad for the child, though. A friend’s son, who is growing up without his dad, has taken to asking whether his dad was a good guy. And the obvious answer here will be, sadly, no.

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A feminist writes about miscarriage…

December 22, 2015 by Andrea Mrozek 1 Comment

…Her own miscarriage. She acknowledges a major point here:

The more I considered it, the more I became convinced that the silence around miscarriage was connected to feminism’s work around abortion. How could I grieve a thing that didn’t exist? If a fetus is not meaningfully alive, if it is just a collection of cells – the cornerstone claim of the pro-choice movement – what does it mean to miscarry one?

…but this appears to never sink into her consciousness. It’s as if that idea is the swimming pool, but she just sits on the edge, never taking a dive in to embrace the reality that if we abort a collection of cells in utero, we cannot mourn the loss of a son or daughter, also in utero.

Oddly, I also think that the abortion culture creates an expectation that we don’t have children when we don’t want to, and we do have children at the precise moment we decide we are ready. Perhaps the result is the kind devastation she experiences at her own miscarriage. It’s as if she blames herself for not being able to sustain the pregnancy, not realizing this was never within her personal sphere of power.

She also only mourns the child she wanted, not the one she aborted. Another inconsistency that the article never grapples with.

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Redirecting pain and anger?

October 7, 2015 by Faye Sonier 5 Comments

It’s not uncommon for me to send Andrea a link to a news article with the  accompanying text: “I don’t even know how to blog about this. I don’t know where to start.”

This story about Nicky Windsor is one of those stories. Nicky is a 29 year old woman from England who chose to abort her child.

She became upset with the abortion provider, the Conifer House clinic, because it did not provide her with sufficient options regarding the disposal of her dead baby’s body.

In response to her complaint, the clinic sent a card of apology and “comfort” and two ultrasound pictures of her baby. Nicky’s statement to the media:

She said: ‘I couldn’t believe my eyes. It’s absolutely disgraceful.

‘I’ve never known anything like it. What were they trying to do to me? Why on earth would I want scan pictures?

‘Going through a procedure like that is traumatic enough so to have it all brought back to me in the way that they did was absolutely shocking.

‘When I first got the card I thought it was a nice gesture but when I opened it up and saw two baby scans it absolutely shattered me. It was just an awful feeling.

‘It felt as if I had to go through the loss all over again.’

The front of the card, though not noted in the article reads “Your little one is sleeping soundly. Your little one is sleeping on a cloud, drifting high above. And gently dreams of peaceful things surrounded by your love.”

Nicky is not angry because her child is dead. She’s not angry that she perhaps made the wrong decision. She’s not angry that women are frequently told that abortion is a simple and straightforward procedure with few side effects, when she suffered severe trauma.

She’s angry that she couldn’t do what she wanted with the corpse and she’s angry that she had to look at the child that she “terminated.” She’s so angry that she goes public with her story and speaks to the media.

This story is as maddening as it is tragic. But the article does reveal some of the tragedy of abortion, how it not only ends a baby’s life, but how it hurts women. Nicky herself said that choosing to have an abortion proved to be a traumatic experience. The abortion provider also admits, via the message on the card, that a child was alive and is now dead and that the mother may be concerned about her child’s eternal soul.

I have to wonder if that concern and pain may be part of the reason for Nicky’s anger directed at the clinic. Nicky’s baby is gone and Nicky herself is in a lot of emotional pain.

And those of us who are pro-life are told we can’t call ourselves pro-woman.

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Why there will always be an abortion debate part 235,756

October 2, 2015 by Andrea Mrozek 3 Comments

Here’s how Nancy Pelosi responds to a question about whether a baby in the womb is a member of the human species. It wouldn’t be good talking points if she spoke honestly and said “It is, but I don’t care, because I prioritize circumstances above that human being in many to all circumstances.” That’s a bit too Camille Paglia.

She is obviously ruffled by the question, cites her faith and goes personal, indicating that because the speaker is a man, she will always know more about childbirth than he does.

All in all, this is another reason why there will always be an abortion debate: Because there will always be reality, aka, human beings in the womb, and there will always be some who prioritize other things above that.

BTW, in saying pro-choice people prioritize other things, I’m not being disparaging. What I aim to create, and what we as pro-lifers should strive for, is a world where it becomes impossible not to prioritize people in all stages of life.

(This post could be done here… but if you keep reading, please email me to collect your prize.)

But I don’t look down upon those who felt for one reason or another that they simply couldn’t keep their baby, and they bought into the lie that it was easier and better to abort. I have said it before and I’ll say it again–at a certain stage of my life I think I would have found that argumentation very compelling and I would have bought into that lie. I know this through friends who look a whole lot like me, who did indeed have abortions. This isn’t about judging, it’s about creating new priorities, freely held.

 

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The disabled feminist analysis of the abortion debate

September 21, 2015 by Faye Sonier 2 Comments

The writer of this piece is no fan of the pro-life movement. Her article identifies another tension within the feminist movement, and how it responds to abortion and euthanasia:

Euthanasia and abortion are often depicted as relating to the quality of one’s life. Our status, and indeed our bodies, are held to ransom in a complex orbit. Part of our history as disabled women has been a hushed legacy of forced sterilisation. Although many disabled women are mothers, a large proportion of us are often silenced in the conversation on reproductive and sexual health issues. […]

In the right-to-die debate, the point made about terminal illnesses can too readily segue into stereotyped characterisations of the perceived worthlessness and horror of disabled lives. Pride, self-esteem and achievement for people with disabilities often comes in small compromising individual and collective milestones. […]

Abortion is a difficult conversation for all women. As a feminist with a disability, my politics and values are constantly evolving. I will not negate my own experience, that brings a pride in being part of a rich form of human diversity. In supporting women’s rights to terminate their pregnancies, there is also a need to advocate for rights and adequate resources for people with disabilities.

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What a gal (sarcasm alert)

August 27, 2015 by Andrea Mrozek 1 Comment

Huh. I knew Margaret Sanger said some racist things, but I didn’t realize she, the founder of Planned Parenthood, actually attended Ku Klux Klan rallies.

A bunch of pro-life folks are protesting her bust, sitting alongside Rosa Parks in the National Portrait Gallery in DC. (Which is, incidentally, my favourite DC museum.)

Sanger, a proponent of eugenics, founded the American Birth Control League in 1921, which became part of the Planned Parenthood Federation of America in 1942.

In an article titled “Birth Control and Racial Betterment,” published in 1919, Sanger wrote that the “diseased and incompetent masses” threaten to “overwhelm all that eugenics can do among those whose economic condition is better.”

“Birth Control, on the other hand, not only opens the way to the eugenist, but it preserves his work,” Sanger wrote.

Sanger wrote in her book “Woman and the New Race” that the population control methods she advocated would bring about the “materials of a new race.”

“Birth control itself, often denounced as a violation of natural law, is nothing more or less than the facilitation of the process of weeding out the unfit, of preventing the birth of defectives or of those who will become defectives,” Sanger wrote.

What a legacy.

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Margaret Sanger, founder of Planned Parenthood

 

 

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Just say no to a “women’s issue” debate

August 25, 2015 by Andrea Mrozek 1 Comment

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I was against a women’s issues debate in the Canadian federal election because it tends to be that people drastically opposed to what I believe pretend to represent me, and I’m just supposed to stand there, smiling, nodding, and saying things like, “I do love little kittens.” So it’s a relief that there won’t be one. Huzzah. There is of course the additional hypocrisy that the group claiming to want a debate doesn’t actually want to debate. On abortion, their talking point has consistently been that abortion is a right not up for debate. So when pro-lifers ask them to defend their views publicly, they say no.

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The folly of the FDA

August 19, 2015 by Andrea Mrozek 2 Comments

Today, “female viagra” was approved by the FDA.

If you want to read about how and why this happened, click here.

Flibanserin, a serotonergic drug, was initially in clinical trials as an antidepressant. Despite its history of being a “thrice failed antidepressant,” Sprout persevered and used the “finding” that some women in the drug trials said they experienced a slight increase in sexual desire as the reason to repackage the drug. Flibanserin was soon in clinical trials for Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder (HSDD), an indication listed in the previous edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders). Sprout now maintains that HSDD is comparable to the DSM-5’s “Female Sexual Interest/Arousal Disorder,” and that women deserve a drug to treat this disorder.

As part of the attempt to gain approval for its drug, Sprout  initiated an ingenious marketing campaign, “Even the Score,” claiming that there was a sexism inherent in the number of FDA-approved treatments for sexual disorders: 26 for men and “zero for women.” However, this claim was false. There are only 8 drugs that treat male sexual dysfunction, and none are FDA-approved for low libido.

However, the “Even the Score” campaign worked. Sprout was able to get women’s groups to sign on to the idea that getting this drug approved was almost akin to getting Title IX passed.

Keep reading. It’s pretty fascinating stuff about the politics of drug approval for conditions that don’t exist, with no proof they do anything over and above a placebo.

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When Godwin’s Law doesn’t apply

August 11, 2015 by Andrea Mrozek 1 Comment

I generally adhere to Godwin’s Law, which states that the first person to compare to Hitler or the Nazis in an online debate has lost the argument. I believe the Holocaust is a uniquely terrible event in history. Therefore, it ought rarely be compared to anything.

When might I diverge from this? When people kill other people, take the body parts, call them trash, and then declare it’s better that this trash be used for research rather than just be thrown out.

Human tissue can be used for research. That’s not the point. It’s all about intent: When we purposefully kill, and the person killed never gave consent to be used for research, then it’s a crime, whether or not the state recognizes it as such.
Over time, the state has recognized immoral actions as legal. What is legal isn’t what is right by a long shot. People get confused about this.
When we use baby body parts and express a callous disregard for that life and those parts then we have indeed entered criminal, and yes, I’d argue, Nazi territory. Most of even the most strident pro-choicers get it, because some of the folks in the blogosphere who never miss a beat blogging about any and every abortion-related story have fallen quite silent this time. That, by the way, is a hopeful sign.

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Planned Parenthood and their specimens

July 30, 2015 by Andrea Mrozek Leave a Comment

Planned Parenthood’s latest. Viewer discretion very much advised. I suppose if you carve the organs out of a born fetus, otherwise known as a baby, then they would be intact.

Sometimes if someone delivers before we are able to see them for procedure then we are intact but that’s not what we go for.”

-Dr. Savita Ginde, Medical Director, Planned Parenthood, Rocky Mountains, Colorado

This refers to babies that are “accidentally” born before the abortion can kill them, thereby providing intact organs for research.

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