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A statement about democracy, not necessarily sex selection abortion

December 12, 2016 by Andrea Mrozek Leave a Comment

Pierre Lemieux, Conservative leadership hopeful in the field of 14 is distinguishing himself by bringing up sex selection abortion. He is against it, as nearly all Canadians are. It still happens, something I documented some 11 years ago at the Western Standard. This tragic reality is something ideological pro-choice people choose not to talk about. Without the spin from the media and/or pro-choice groups, Canadians find this uncontroversial. 

Sex selection abortion is notoriously hard to legislate out of existence. This is not, however, the main point. The point is that we ought to be able to make some consensus statements about negative aspects of abortion, and this is one of them, particularly in the House of Commons. No need to pull out the smelling salts, people. If legitimately unresolved issues such as this fester without democratic debate and discussion, it comes out in other negative ways as people seek a voice somewhere, somehow. 

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On firing for pro-life opinions

December 8, 2016 by Andrea Mrozek Leave a Comment

This is a guest post from someone who is obviously distressed by the news this morning that a BC teacher was fired for expressing the personal opinion that he doesn’t agree with abortion. Expressing this view was intended to highlight how our personal morality may differ from the law–a concept, needless to say, with which all pro-lifers are intimately familiar. Now he doesn’t have a job anymore. If someone were pro-choice and fired under similar circumstances I would stand up for them. I’m still hoping a major pro-choice spokesperson would come out and say this is obscene.

Anyway, here’s the anonymous guest post now:

By 6 am this morning, I had been emailed this story twice: B.C. teacher fired for having the wrong opinion by Christie Blatchford. Her piece tells a sickening story of how a private school teacher was fired for noting during a grade 12 law class that he was opposed to abortion.

“In other words, he said, in a pluralistic democracy, there’s often “a difference between people’s private morality and the law.

“I find abortion to be wrong,” he said, as another illustration of this gap, “but the law is often different from our personal opinions.”

That was it, the teacher said. “It was just a quick exemplar, nothing more. And we moved on.”

A little later, the class had a five-minute break, and when it resumed, several students didn’t return, among them a popular young woman who had gone to an administrator to complain that what the teacher said had “triggered” her such that she felt “unsafe” and that, in any case, he had no right to an opinion on the subject of abortion because he was a man.

The school, for the record, is a witheringly progressive one.”

The administrators should reconsider how they do their jobs, and the parents should have a hard look at how they are parenting their daughter. I know that’s a loaded statement, but walk with me through this.

First, the student in question is likely 16 or 17 years old. She is being taught, that even at her age, she needs to be sheltered from other people’s opinions. She is going to be voting soon. She could join the military and be on the front lines. And her school and parents are reinforcing this ridiculous notion. Their delicate snowflake can’t handle differences of opinion. How the heck are they preparing her for the real world?

Further, she is being taught that if her feelings are hurt, all she has to do is run to some authority figure and have the other person humiliated. Fired. Have their opinion corrected so it lines up with hers. You know what? That’s awfully paternalistic and condescending. I don’t know why this didn’t occur to the daughter, the administrator, or the parents. Is this truly the progressive, empowering, feminist environment they want for her daughter?

Imagined scenario:

– Mr./Mrs. Administrator, I don’t feel safe. My teacher said he had a different opinion than mine on abortion.

– (Figurative pat on the head.) There, there, it’s okay. I’m here for you. We’ll require him to apologize to you in front of his peers and his students, humiliating him, undermining his authority in the classroom and under threat of losing his job. Will that make you feel safe? Yes? Oh good. That’s what we want.

Seriously?

If my kids attended this school, I’d pull them out, tell every parent and donor I know what happened and find a school for my kids that offered opportunities for them to grow into responsible, engaged and productive adults. I want my kids to become adults who cannot only survive in the real world, but thrive. In the real world. Where a whole lot of people will disagree with them. And where they have a realistic understanding of what is safe and unsafe.

Alternate universe scenario: The student explains her feelings to the administrator. The administrator hears her out. Asks thoughtful questions. Ascertains whether or not there is any threat to the student and if the teacher acted improperly. Asks the teacher for his perspective, obviously without the student present.

Calls the student back in and explains that the teacher simply has a different opinion on this matter. Explains that their school, which so values diversity, welcomes people with different opinions to share them in respectful manners. Did she perhaps want to have a chat with the teacher and the administrator about the issue? Maybe she could learn a little bit about the teacher’s perspective and she could share her own? Perhaps they could go over ways that one could positively act on their beliefs? Have discussions and debates? Join and support charities that advance causes x, y, z?

I can’t believe her parents are paying $30,000 a year for her daughter to be taught her expectations and the school’s reaction is normal. Even appropriate. What a waste.

 

Stock photography doesn't always come through for me, but let's just say this is a snowflake social justice warrior high school student, who can't cope with the marketplace of ideas.

Stock photography doesn’t always come through for me, but let’s just say this is a snowflake social justice warrior high school student, who can’t cope with the marketplace of ideas.

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Naomi Lakritz: Feminist and pro-life

December 6, 2016 by Andrea Mrozek 1 Comment

Today we have a treat from a guest writer, Naomi Lakritz. Naomi will be known to many of you, as she was a columnist with the Calgary Herald for so many years. Her perspective is so valuable. Enjoy.

I am pro-life. That means I can be dismissed as a far-right Christian fundamentalist, correct? Sorry, you lose. I am Jewish. I am on the left on some issues, right of centre on others. It depends on the issue. I’m not predictable. But you are predictable, aren’t you? Because I know that since I am pro-life, you won’t allow me among the ranks of feminists, will you? Feminists are required to be pro-choice.

Permit me to disturb your blinkered thinking, but I am indeed a feminist. I believe in equal pay for equal work and all the other causes feminists hold dear. Except for one. I don’t believe in destroying unborn humans. But as for everything else? Not only am I a feminist, I have done all the things feminists applaud women for doing. I raised three children alone after dumping an emotionally abusive husband, when the children were 7, 2, and 8 months. I never had a single weekend to myself all those years of child-raising because said husband moved across the country and couldn’t be bothered with his children anymore. Which, in every way, was a blessing. While raising those three kids as a single mom, I worked full-time as a journalist. I have spent more than 30 years working at daily newspapers and I rose to the top of the heap to be a nationally known columnist and member of the editorial board of a major metropolitan daily newspaper for the last 18 years. And during those three decades in journalism, I saw, and angrily deplored, plenty of instances of sexism in the business. It infuriates me when women are treated as inferior to men.

Oh, and I’m sorry to shatter another stereotype you may be harbouring, but I must mention that even though I was a single mother, none of my children ever got into any trouble. They grew up into responsible, highly moral adults and contributing citizens. The two oldest are professionals in their respective fields, the youngest is studying to be a paramedic.

But back to my pro-life stance as a feminist. I find it ironic that anyone who is pro-choice is considered to be progressive. I don’t see the act of dismembering unborn babies as a progressive thing to do. It seems quite regressive to me. In fact, it’s barbaric. Babies do not suddenly acquire the quality of being human the day they are born. They had it all along. Life is a continuum and we mothers, of all people, should be acutely aware of that fact. The fetus whose first feeble kicks could be felt around 15 weeks into pregnancy was already a fully-formed individual before that; all that remained for it was to grow. That unborn baby becomes the infant crying with colic at 3 a.m., then the toddler taking his first steps, the five-year-old picking a grubby fistful of dandelions for mom, the 10-year-old on skates with NHL dreams, the teen with the purple, spiked hair, the serious college student, the adult out in the working world. This was always the same person, moving along the continuum.

There should be no discussion about when a fetus can feel pain, when it is “viable”, or at what stage in pregnancy it becomes sentient and aware of itself. Or at least, there should be no such discussions in relation to deciding when abortion is permissible. Those things should be relegated to the study of embryology for its own sake, and I suggest that we will never know how or when sentience occurs.

Pregnancy is about the life of a new human being. Bottom line: You don’t kill human beings.  I am a feminist who is pro-life. There is nothing incongruous about that statement.

Naomi Lakritz is a former columnist with the Calgary Herald and the Winnipeg Sun. She is the owner of Naomi Lakritz Editing Services.

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Naomi Lakritz, feminist and pro-life

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The Tyrant’s Helpers

December 5, 2016 by Andrea Mrozek Leave a Comment

This was published in Convivium today. It’s something of a reflection on Fidel Castro’s death, but I do manage to bring up abortion nonetheless:

Here in Canada, human rights abuses around me can be openly contested and fought. The people who do so do not go to jail. In short, there is very little to lose by expressing opposition to injustice. Why then, do I hold back? It may be unpopular to oppose abortion, for example, but it’s not illegal. Pro-lifers are most routinely ignored, not punished. Even so, our numbers are few. The biggest problem in fighting the injustice of abortion is getting people to see that abortion marks an actual injustice.

 

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Making a great point

December 1, 2016 by Natalie Sonnen Leave a Comment

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“Let’s go to the underlying essence, and what is the essence?” one woman in the video explained. “That inside a woman’s womb there’s life, with a heart that is beating.”

These words were said by a woman in Chile participating in a pro-life event. But this is no ordinary pro-life event.  At this event, participants got to experience the lives of babies in the womb.

Several women had fetal heart monitors attached to their bellies and attached to amplifiers so that all could hear the sounds of the beating hearts of their babies. “The Voice of the Heart”. What a fantastic idea – what a great way to get the message across.

I think this is something that we in the pro-life movement in Canada can emulate!

See the actual demonstration at 1:51 in the video below. It’s well worth watching the whole thing.

Hat’s off to the women of Chile who came up with this great, wonderful campaign.

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Saying Trump’s win is due to sexism is sexist

November 14, 2016 by Andrea Mrozek 2 Comments

I find claims that Trump won thanks to sexism or misogyny very frustrating, for some of the reasons I outline here. How is it that one of the wealthiest, most successful and powerful women in the world is suddenly a victim? She lost on her merits. Women who believe there couldn’t be any reason other than a glass ceiling may consider some of these arguments.

Ultimately, there is sexism in declaring misogyny the reason for Clinton’s loss. If Hillary Clinton lost because she is a woman, could it not be said that her many prior wins were likewise because she is a woman? Where biological sex is the cause of failure, must it not also extend to being the cause of success? I’d say no to both.

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Bill 28 in Ontario

November 11, 2016 by Andrea Mrozek Leave a Comment

It’s not too late to call your MPP about Bill 28 if you are concerned. There’s information here about how to do just that.

More to the point, it moves care of children into the domain of contract, and out of the realm of relationship. As such, Bill 28 codifies the commodification of children. We have been moving in this direction for a while, with the separation of having children from the sexual act, the introduction of a third party’s parts and the use of surrogates (whether or not they are paid). When parents had children in a relationship, and cared for them, too, the children knew where they came from. Bill 28 does not provide for a registration of who the biological parents actually are, leaving children with an existential crisis of never knowing where they came from as a matter of routine.

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Redefining bravery

October 28, 2016 by Andrea Mrozek 2 Comments

Many evenings over the past months, my husband and I have been watching CBC’s A People’s History of Canada. It’s been fascinating to learn about those who built this country when there was nothing but wilderness. Without going into details, it took a lot. One pioneer woman was making the move from London, England to join her husband in the Canadian prairies in the late 1880s. First things first, she got all her teeth pulled and dentures made. The prairies held opportunity, but no dentists.

Our own grandparents had a different mentality of duty and sacrifice. They sacrificed a lot to make ends meet and raise families.

We don’t do that today, not always, anyway. The linked Chatelaine article is the story of a fairly well-established, married woman in her 30s who has two kids and aborts the third. She later goes on to birth her fourth.

It’s an old story: yes, we get it, EVERYONE is doing it. Thus we see how the abortion regime has no logic. For the point of stories  like these is to do two incompatible things: one is celebrate the normalcy of abortion for EVERYONE, the other is declare women who get abortions and talk about it to be very, very brave.

My point here is to reflect on her need to go public and thereby collectively redefine bravery by writing this article. She gets her accolades in the comments. (Although some, oddly, chastise her for having a glass of wine when she finds out (!?) and others criticize her for getting pregnant if she didn’t want to be. I don’t think I need to tell this audience that precisely none of these are a pro-life reaction.)

When she gives life to her fourth, it was without the sense of doom, she says.

When facing doom, when facing hardship, our response these days is to eradicate the hardship. In the past, the idea behind courage and bravery was to withstand and come out the other side a changed and/or better person.

One final comment: post-abortion, she mentions meeting up with a friend who “was trying to have another baby and had suffered several miscarriages. I didn’t dare tell her about my day.” I’ll say. I know what I would have said to her. And it wouldn’t have been pretty. But why not confess to her too? Is it because the burden of saying I just killed my child while you would so love to have one is awkward? Is that not part of the journey of sharing, together? Is this not part of “avoiding holding our collective breath”? Or might it just be indecent to put this on someone in that circumstance? And if, just if, it is indecent to do that in those circumstances, then why for the love of all things good in this world, is it AOK to force this indecency upon us via a widely read magazine?

This is why pro-abortion “sharing” is now–and always will be–counter-productive.

To conclude, some advice for pro-choicers: Abortion in your worldview is either normal, or brave, but it isn’t and can’t be both.

A defiant baby fist, raised high. The problem with the pro-life movement is that the babies can never join a union and protest.

This may look cute, but it’s actually a defiant baby fist, raised high. If I could have found a photo with the third finger raised, I would have posted that. The problem with the pro-life movement is that babies can never join a union and protest their own mothers and fathers.

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“There’s no mention of abortion in the Bible”

October 26, 2016 by Andrea Mrozek 2 Comments

I recently listened to an abortion debate, hosted by a major Toronto radio station some years ago. The pro-choicer was the one talking religion and saying that abortion is nowhere mentioned in the Bible. (I just think it’s worth mentioning that while many pro-lifers are religious, we aren’t the ones citing chapter and verse in public debates.)

This pro-choicer seems to revel in the fact that abortion isn’t mentioned, therefore, it is licit or good.

I found myself thinking a couple of things.

One is this: Abortion may not be mentioned by name in the Bible. That would not surprise me. But there is a commandment that says not to kill. You can only circumvent that commandment if you don’t actually think there’s anything to kill in abortion, but most women know why they are getting an abortion and it’s because someone is growing that will become, in due course, a born child. So there’s that.

But the second thing I thought was this: There is no such thing as an unwanted person in the Bible. No concept of unwanted child. No concept of unwanted pregnancy. The central point, written throughout the Bible is of God using little, even unimportant people in big ways. Plenty of examples.

Now were I the debater I’m sure I would have had the presence of mind to say precisely none of this. But that’s what blogs are for. And I have one of those. So I thought I’d type this little thought up, and here we are.

God uses “unwanted” people for big things and has a purpose and a plan for each one of us. If mothers considering abortion knew this about themselves, I think it would help in avoiding abortion.

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Trump/Clinton

October 18, 2016 by Andrea Mrozek 4 Comments

I maintain a Clinton presidency is just as dangerous as a Trump presidency, only in different ways.

Trump is a disaster. I thought I could hold my nose really hard and vote for Trump in the hopes that he might, by accident, make a good Supreme Court nominee. That was the only reason. Now I’m not sure I could. I know he is not remotely conservative. I know and have always realized he is a cad, a boor and an idiot. Actually, watching him in mind-blowingly awful action after the first debate really hammered home the idiot portion–that he has zero comprehension of any issue. And calling him grade school on his manners does a disservice to those in grade school, who are generally much better behaved.

Lady MacBeth  Clinton is more polished. She has a shiny veneer on her (and a way better political machine behind her). For me, of all her crimes: Benghazi, the emails, the firing of civil servants because they wouldn’t make public office into a money making scheme for her, the slandering of women her husband had affairs with–the worst to me, and the most indicative of her character is stealing White House furniture. I haven’t even mentioned her “charitable” foundation or touched on her pro-abortion bona fides. Now we learn via Wikileaks that her campaign holds Roman Catholics and Evangelicals in high disdain for our medieval views. (I like medieval views–modern times have brought a lot of nonsense, suffering and hardship. Actually, on Christianity I think I’m leaning toward first-four-centuries-anno-domini-views–but I digress.) Clinton holds people in high disdain and this is something that comes through about her, even with the polish.

Two utterly impossible choices.

Here’s the thing: Do people realize that politics is downstream of culture? Think about that. We know it’s true. Politicians aren’t brave–they don’t chart new territory. They deliver what they think we want, to get more votes.

Politics being downstream of culture should really scare us right now. Trump and Clinton as the nominee means we are getting exactly what we deserve out of the culture we have created.

It scares me as much as hearing Chuck Colson say in an online clip that the culture reflects the state of the church. This was a recent realization to me. And I believe it is true.

This is a great article on the state of the culture as regards Trump and sexuality. I’ve always been a prude, and I am proud of it. So I am bemused by the “sudden onset of Victorian vapors” over Trump, as the author puts it, where all the rest of the soft-porn/hard-core smut we immerse ourselves in from advertising to music to movies was AOK.

Did no one think it might filter into the character of our nations at some point?

Please look at this beautiful landscape--imagine you are there--instead of here, trapped in the land of gross political campaigning that is hard to escape. Breathe. Deeply.

Please look at this beautiful landscape–imagine you are there–instead of here, trapped in the land of gross political campaigning that is hard to escape. Breathe. Deeply.

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