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Except I wouldn’t call it ‘panic’

March 3, 2008 by Brigitte Pellerin Leave a Comment

From the National Post this morning:

The societal panic over childhood obesity, already entrenched in the medical system and evident in the furor over school lunches, is beginning to influence custody judgments and child-welfare authorities in their decisions about fitness to parent.

An Ontario family court judgment involving the Children’s Aid Society recently cited obesity as a reason for removing a child from the parental home, after determining the mother was contributing to her child’s weight gain and was oblivious to the required medical regime.

The details of the case are covered by a publication ban, but the theme is echoed in another case, an epic nine-year custody battle that wrapped up in a Newmarket courtroom last month, much of which centred on the comparative merits of the battling parents in adhering to a diet plan for their obese twins.

While I dislike government meddling in family affairs in principle, I appreciate that there are times when intervention is needed to save innocent children from harm. Incest, abuse, gross negligence being among the most obvious. I am not convinced exposing children to, say, tobacco smoke or junk food is necessarily detrimental – you can do a lot more damage to your children with emotional abuse than with second-hand smoke. I don’t know when overfeeding your children becomes abuse that requires state intervention. But I’m glad we’re getting a chance to discuss the problem, which is unfortunately all too real.  

Filed Under: All Posts Tagged With: child abuse, childhood obesity, custody battles

Abortion not up for debate at York U

March 3, 2008 by Andrea Mrozek 1 Comment

I already had more than an inkling that York University is a fourth rate institution–home to a sophistic stew of ideological propaganda. And I’m not just saying that because I went to UofT.

They prove my point here: Abortion can’t be debated “cuz it’s like debating the KKK or wife beating.”

Someone, anyone, take pity and get these kids at the York Federation of Students an education.

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“Airbrushing away diversity”

March 2, 2008 by Brigitte Pellerin Leave a Comment

The Ottawa Citizen has a front-page picture and a two-page spread on the implications of widespread genetic testing for pregnant women that would, well, limit the number of children born with Down Syndrome.

Read the stories here, here, and here.  

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Andrea adds: I don’t think Canadians realize how the system is biased toward abortion. To highlight:

We would like to see information given to women in a fair and balanced and value-neutral way,” said Krista Flint, executive director of the Down syndrome society. “We don’t think that’s the case currently — we know that’s not the case. Families involved with (the society) tell us regularly that that hasn’t been their experience. The central message they receive is ‘Don’t have this baby, it could ruin your life.’

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Rebecca adds: The central message they receive is ‘Don’t have this baby, it could ruin your life.’ Flint is talking about women whose fetuses test positive for Down’s Syndrome, but really, this is what the rationale is for most abortion, when you boil it down. And as long as we privilege (heh, I’ve been spending too much time talking to academics if I can use that as a transitive verb) the quality of life of adults over the life of their child, an awful lot of people are going to abort an awful lot of babies because they think it’s what’s best for them (the parents).

And another provocative quote from the same article:

But we don’t tell parents, ‘Oh, we’ve identified your fetus as a female. She’s more likely to be predisposed to breast cancer, she’s more likely to be sexually assaulted and she’s more likely to have a lower paying job.’ Yet when the single chromosome is for Down syndrome the medical profession chooses to give a litany of what can go wrong when there’s so much that can go right.

I remain perplexed by those who are pro-choice for economic, educational, or aesthetic reasons while believe abortion is wrong if it’s made because of the sex of the fetus, its health, or its predisposition. Is it really more frivolous to abort a Down’s Syndrome baby than it is to abort a healthy baby who was conceived before the mother finished school? Is it worse to abort a girl because you wanted a boy, than it is to abort two of your in utero triplets because you don’t want to shop at Costco, as in that infamous New York case?

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Véronique adds:

They [the two sisters of an 8 year-old boy with Down syndrome] have developed and learned things I didn’t need to teach them, just by contact. They’ll see a person with a handicap at the shopping mall and they’ll say, ‘Oh my gosh this person is cute.’ They see the beauty of the person behind the handicap. We don’t have to talk about that, they live it.

Reminded me of a question my daughter asked me about her cleft-affected sister: “Is she special because she has a cleft lip or does she have a cleft lip because she’s special?”

Filed Under: All Posts Tagged With: Down Syndrome, Ottawa Citizen

Another sad case

March 2, 2008 by Brigitte Pellerin Leave a Comment

Toronto mother found guilty of drowning her autistic daughter.

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Andrea adds: I feel agony for this woman, this family that is no more:

Shortly after her arrest, Peng [the mother] removed her glasses, smashed them and used them to slash her arms, according to evidence at her bail hearing that the jury wasn’t allowed to hear, the Toronto Star reported.

Because a mother taking the life her child is extremely unusual, and extremely troubling.

(Except of course when we sanitize it, make it clinical, call it medically necessary, fund it, and put it in our hospitals or create private clinics. At that point, all dressed up, we call it abortion, no wait, A Woman’s Right. And then people like me are called “radical” and “extreme” for suggesting perhaps this is not normal. Go figure.)  

Filed Under: All Posts Tagged With: Scarlett Chen, Xuan Peng

When the open-minded and tolerant are, well, not

March 1, 2008 by Brigitte Pellerin 1 Comment

Interesting piece by Michael Coren in the Toronto Sun today.

In the United States a pro-life magazine has just published an article that has sent shockwaves through the media. The magazine in question, The Advocate, had an actor telephone Planned Parenthood in seven different states and pose as a racist bigot who wanted to donate money to the largest pro-abortion organization in North America. The reaction was extraordinary.

In Ohio the potential donor began by stating that, “There’s definitely way too many black people in Ohio, so I am just trying to do my part.”

Planned Parenthood: “Okay, whatever.”

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… at no time did Planned Parenthood decline the donation or express concern at the appallingly racist sentiments of the caller. One conversation involved not merely an employee but a director of development and in some instances other workers were consulted to make sure the donations were acceptable. They were. Some of the Planned Parenthood staff eagerly supported the apparently racist caller’s views.

Reminds me of something my dear husband wrote a while ago in the now-defunct Western Standard (and in the National Post) about St. Tommy Douglas wanting to sterilize (I kid you not) mental defectives.

It’s not like I’m shocked to discover that there are racists, imbeciles and bigots everywhere. But it annoys me no end to be lectured on tolerance and open-mindedness by people whose ideological side practises such appallingly poor political hygiene. I know there are kooks and bigots and whatnot on the right (and among pro-lifers). But I don’t believe these people are at the forefront of the movement. It’s hard to claim Planned Parenthood is marginalized by the mainstream pro-choice movement as being too extreme for polite company…

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Andrea adds: Planned Parenthood marginalized? Au contraire! We fund them with our tax dollars within Canada and since that’s just not quite enough, our federal government gives to Planned Parenthood International, too.

Filed Under: All Posts Tagged With: John Robson, Michael Coren, Planne Parenthood, Tommy Douglas

Hell hath no fury like a fool scorned

March 1, 2008 by Andrea Mrozek Leave a Comment

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Recall how Lakehead had their club status denied.

Now the Lakehead Student Union has decided they want a pro-life/pro-choice debate. March 4 is the date. The Lakehead Life club invited Jojo Ruba to speak. 

If they were denied status before, they should now be preparing for a full excommunication.

You see, Jojo is responsible for the whole kerfuffle at Carleton University in 2006, when the Carleton student union banned the pro-life club there. That incident directly followed his debate with Planned Parenthood at Carleton University.

I happened to see him in action against the two (yes-two) ladies from Planned Parenthood. Apparently they brought each for moral support, which would have been very much needed because Jojo singlehandedly cleaned their clocks.

Pro-choice people to debate are hard to come by. I understand why they are wary. Flaky arguments that skirt the issue is what I heard when I attended the 2006 Carleton debate.

Jojo is respectful, kind, well-informed, logical and good. He’s excellent.

I hope Lakehead University holds this debate. I’m just saying-the pro-life club should prepare themselves for the fallout, because Mr. Ruba is really good. And the pro-choice side in the 2006 debate was really weak.

No one likes to be made the fool and apparently angry fools do foolish things.

Filed Under: All Posts Tagged With: ban, Jojo Ruba, Lakehead University, pro-life clubs

That’s your imagination keeping you up

February 29, 2008 by Véronique Bergeron Leave a Comment

When I am not posting on ProWomanProLife, I am doing graduate research into decision-making in neonatal intensive care. Came upon this in an academic article on prenatal decision-making, that is, medical management decisions made when a woman is threatened by premature labor and delivery at the margins of viability (22 to 24 weeks gestation):

In Canada, a foetus is not legally considered to be a person. It is only once born that a neonate becomes a citizen with full rights. Therefore, [parents] are engaged in a decision concerning a person that does not yet legally exist and that cannot be considered a medical patient by neonatologists. The situation is even more so ambiguous when the foetus is not yet a reality for parents who, in anticipating their parenthood, have only imagined their baby.” (From Payot et al., 2007)

If nothing ever highlighted the hypocrisy of a system that delivers and treats infants at the margins of viability on one floor while aborting them on another, this should.

I have yet to meet a family in neonatal intensive care that considers the non-personhood of their baby when making medical management decisions. And what is that bit about the baby being “only imagined”? I’ll bet any pregnant woman who has ever been kept awake at night by a tossing and turning fetus would describe her baby as anything but “imagined”.

Filed Under: All Posts Tagged With: abortion, decision-making, fetus, neonatal intensive care, personhood, premature

Everything’s relative… absolutely!

February 29, 2008 by Véronique Bergeron Leave a Comment

The recent posts on the uproar caused by bill C-484 among abortion advocates made me reflect on the philosophical implications of opposing a bill that gives a different legal status to fetuses that are expected than to those that are not. I always thought that the entire edifice of choice arguments rested on moral relativism. In other words, whether something – ending the life of a fetus – is right or wrong depends on what you think it is. There is no absolute yardstick of morality and, consequently, what you see depends on what you choose to see.

So what should be the big deal about a bill that gives a special legal status to fetuses that are expected and wanted? If abortion is relatively moral, supporting an initiative that upholds this relativity should strengthen the choice rhetoric, shouldn’t it? Well apparently no. The “free abortion on demand” slogan cannot withstand any suggestion that the fetus is relevant because doing so would be admitting some abortions as unwarranted or unnecessary. And when the rightness of an action – ending the life of a fetus – won’t withstand the challenge of circumstances, it’s called an “absolute.” We pro-lifers have long argued that some things are absolutely wrong. It is time to start reflecting on the implications of holding abortion as absolutely right.

Filed Under: All Posts Tagged With: abortion, Bill C-484, moral absolutism, moral relativism

Perverse, and boasting about it

February 28, 2008 by Brigitte Pellerin Leave a Comment

I was just reading a two-day old column about Emma Beck by Michelle Malkin. And came across this jaw-dropper:

And who gets premium op-ed space in America’s newspaper of record to talk about abortion? Idiots like University of Iowa adjunct assistant writing professor Brian Goedde, who shared his festive thoughts surrounding the New Year’s Eve before his girlfriend’s abortion in an essay a few months ago in The New York Times. “The abortion is scheduled for two days from now, and we’re holing up,” he reminisced. “We do the dishes brush our teeth, climb into bed and have unprotected sex. ‘I’m not going to get more pregnant,’ Emily says. I’ve never felt pleasure more guiltily.”

So the good thing about an unwanted pregnancy is that it allows a guy to enjoy unprotected sex without consequences while his girlfriend waits for the abortion appointment? Is this what they mean by a woman’s right?

Boy, I’d hate to see a woman’s wrong.

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Rebecca adds: There are so many awful things about the Emma Beck story, but this quote stands out for me: “I should never have had an abortion. I see now I would have been a good mum,” Beck wrote. “I told everyone I didn’t want to do it, even at the hospital. I was frightened, now it is too late.”

In what universe did Beck give informed consent for this abortion? For any other elective surgery, I’d bet the medical staff would ask you to take a day or two to think it over. Do you think if a woman seeking breast implants said, about to go under, “I don’t want to do this,” they’d just proceed against her will, or assume she didn’t really mean it? The doctor who carried out Emma Beck’s abortion shares in the responsibility for her death. I wonder if he’ll get away with it.

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Andrea adds: Emma Beck’s story deserves more play than it got. Apparently we need abortion, because otherwise women would die in back alley abortions. My point all along has been that women are hurt, and yes, they die in “safe and legal” abortions. Providing abortion as a solution is a bit like having firefighters show up with a match…(“Hey- we notice something over here that’s still standing. Light her up!” Solution, indeed.)

Filed Under: All Posts Tagged With: abortion, unprotected sex

Justice denied

February 28, 2008 by Andrea Mrozek Leave a Comment

On Latimer, it’s justice denied.

You see, Canadian courts tend to be easy on killers of the disabled. Seven out of ten Canadians support Robert Latimer. Seventy percent of Canadians agree with assisted suicide for the chronically ill and disabled…

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Brigitte adds: It still wouldn’t be right if 9.9 out of 10 supported it. And, ahem, Tracy Latimer did not die by suicide. It would help if we remembered not to confuse everything all the time.  

Filed Under: All Posts Tagged With: Human Life Matters, Robert Latimer

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