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Hurray for the Toronto Star!

January 18, 2016 by Andrea Mrozek 2 Comments

They start this article with pro-life talking points:

When a man and a woman of a certain age have unprotected sex, there is always the possibility a baby will be made. Such are the facts of life with which, one would assume, a doctor is familiar.

Yes indeed.

But read the article. I was bemused reading it, that a grown adult, a physician, would launch a lawsuit for this:

And yet a 42-year-old Toronto physician recently tried to sue a woman with whom he’d had a casual sexual relationship for more than $4 million in damages, claiming “non-pathological emotional harm of an unplanned parenthood.”

Here’s what the physician was unhappy about, at age 42:

To use the language of the statement of claim, PP was emotionally harmed because he was deprived of the choice of falling in love, marrying, enjoying married life and, when he and his wife thought ‘the time was right,’ having a baby,” the judge wrote in his 18-page ruling.

The man is a cad and an idiot, who passed med school. Scary.

However, he is only buying into what he’s been told his whole life… that sex need not result in babies, that sex is an itch to be scratched, something nice that comes no strings attached and that ultimately, we can all plan parenthood. (Where have I heard that phrase before?)

It is only in a world where women get the ultimate and arbitrary right to do away with or keep babies based on how they feel that a lawsuit such as this can get off the ground. They obviously felt they had a chance, and quite frankly, I would have thought they did too.

I’m sad for the child, though. A friend’s son, who is growing up without his dad, has taken to asking whether his dad was a good guy. And the obvious answer here will be, sadly, no.

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Strength to Fight Ottawa Canal Skate, January 23

January 13, 2016 by Andrea Mrozek 1 Comment

Strength to Fight is raising money and awareness in fighting pornography by skating the entire length of the canal. Yes, that’s right, all 15 km, on January 23, meeting at Dow’s Lake at 1 pm.

You can join by skating, join by giving money, or join by sharing this post and spreading the word. I’m hoping to find Strength to Skate–would be great to be able to say I skated the ENTIRE canal all in one go, once in my life. I can already truthfully say I’ve skated to work! Which is a story I enjoy telling. skate

 

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George Jonas, rest in peace

January 11, 2016 by Andrea Mrozek 1 Comment

I have a George Jonas column up on my billboard with a collection of columns I really enjoyed. It’s this one, which kind of bluntly gets at the stasis on abortion over the past some decades. I appreciate bluntness (mostly) and honesty (always) and therefore, I appreciate George Jonas. Now he’s gone on “to the other side,” and I’m sad.

May he rest in peace, and write honest and blunt columns there without ever receiving a single vitriolic letter to the editor.

 

 

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“Was it planned?”

January 8, 2016 by Andrea Mrozek 5 Comments

This just in from a pregnant friend. I think this kind of question is very rude in part because it’s so personal. It also annoys me because it reflects the theme of our age, that apparently we can plan EVERYTHING. I’m not sure what to tell her. My best first reply would be “Why do you ask that?” followed up by “Why do you think that is appropriate to ask?”

Have you ever written about people asking pregnant ladies “Was it planned?” Probably half of the people we’ve told have asked me that, and it’s getting infuriating. Not because of how personal that question is but because I’ve thought about it a lot, and the underlying question is really about whether the baby was wanted and is wanted. Either that or asking if we are sexually irresponsible, which I would actually be more okay with than people questioning whether we want our baby.

Any suggestions on how I can respond in a constructive way as this question continues to come up, so that the asker gets it and never asks someone that question again? When I shared the news with a manager in my department today, she actually just asked “Planned?” with an authoritative and loud voice and kind of an intimidating look, which I think has tipped me over the edge.

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Not what he ordered

January 8, 2016 by Andrea Mrozek Leave a Comment

A surrogate mother is refusing to abort one of the triplets she is carrying on the buyer’s demand. Good for her. The customer is not always right.

I have a deep empathy for men who want children,” Cook says in a statement released to People Magazine. “However, I now think that the basic concept of surrogacy arrangements must be re-examined, scrutinized and reconsidered.”

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It’s Christmas time

December 28, 2015 by Andrea Mrozek Leave a Comment

It still is, if you are counting out the Twelve Days of Christmas, anyway.

A pretty great New York Times article about the reason for the season. If you are Christian, a great reminder. If you are not, it’s a moment to reflect on what Christianity brought the world, whether or not Christians practice this well or poorly.

Christians have often fallen short of what followers of Jesus are called to be. We have seen this in the Crusades, religious wars and bigotry; in opposition to science, in the way critical thought is discouraged and in harsh judgmentalism. To this day, many professing Christians embody the antithesis of grace.

We Christians would do well to remind ourselves of the true meaning of the incarnation. We are part of a great drama that God has chosen to be a participant in, not in the role of a conquering king but as a suffering servant, not with the intention to condemn the world but to redeem it. He saw the inestimable worth of human life, regardless of social status, wealth and worldly achievements, intelligence or national origin. So should we.

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A feminist writes about miscarriage…

December 22, 2015 by Andrea Mrozek 1 Comment

…Her own miscarriage. She acknowledges a major point here:

The more I considered it, the more I became convinced that the silence around miscarriage was connected to feminism’s work around abortion. How could I grieve a thing that didn’t exist? If a fetus is not meaningfully alive, if it is just a collection of cells – the cornerstone claim of the pro-choice movement – what does it mean to miscarry one?

…but this appears to never sink into her consciousness. It’s as if that idea is the swimming pool, but she just sits on the edge, never taking a dive in to embrace the reality that if we abort a collection of cells in utero, we cannot mourn the loss of a son or daughter, also in utero.

Oddly, I also think that the abortion culture creates an expectation that we don’t have children when we don’t want to, and we do have children at the precise moment we decide we are ready. Perhaps the result is the kind devastation she experiences at her own miscarriage. It’s as if she blames herself for not being able to sustain the pregnancy, not realizing this was never within her personal sphere of power.

She also only mourns the child she wanted, not the one she aborted. Another inconsistency that the article never grapples with.

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Safe medicines for pregnant women

December 17, 2015 by Andrea Mrozek Leave a Comment

This article makes an important point. Pregnant women need safe medications. All the more so if they are experiencing an unplanned pregnancy. Obviously, you could better persevere through an unplanned pregnancy for the sake of giving a person life if you aren’t depressed, sick, or otherwise suffering. I don’t know how they will ethically proceed with this; it’s obviously tricky terrain, because experimenting with fetal health is obviously problematic. However, I think this is important.

Our current model for dealing with pregnant women and medication preaches abstinence. Expectant mothers are cautioned to avoid both prescription and over the counter drugs (as well as alcohol and even caffeine) to mitigate any possible harm to the baby — after all, it’s better to be safe than sorry.

The problem is, telling pregnant women to avoid any and all medication for nine months ignores one very glaring truth: pregnant women get sick and can be injured. This leaves them with an impossible choice: either take medication that poses unknown risks to their child, or refuse treatment and put their own health (and potentially the health of their child) in danger.

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“The God I believe in isn’t short of cash, mister”

December 13, 2015 by Andrea Mrozek 2 Comments

Sassy writing and a Princess Bride reference within the first ten lines. I like it.

Furthermore, anytime someone living within the shadow of the CN Tower expresses a pro-life point of view, an angel gets his wings–so I feel it’s important to highlight these miraculous moments.

I don’t believe in coincidences. If you or someone known to you is on the horns of a dilemma with an unexpected pregnancy and planning to terminate it, have the child and I’ll find a way to raise it for you.
This isn’t a first-come, one-off proposition. I’ll do it for as many as ask. If you’re wondering how such an undertaking could be accomplished, as the Irish philosopher Paul Hewson put it, “The God I believe in isn’t short of cash, mister.”
I’m not doing it because I think your kid is the Messiah. In fact, if the child grows up with much exposure to me, chances are he’ll be a world-class jerk. Nevertheless, he has a right to live.
Now, this is a sincere offer, but let’s please not make it the focal point of this prose. What I’m saying is that if those of us who are pro-life mean what we say, we must be part of the solution beyond stating what the law should be or what other people should do.
I believe Mr. Caldwell is perfectly serious with his offer, btw. Therefore, I would like to broadcast it further here. If you need help, please get in touch. That said, I am filled with sadness knowing how many expressions of total and complete generosity are met with no–because people believe they cannot accept help, or that it isn’t real, or they just can’t. I often wonder if someone out there needs to model vulnerability–a simple expression that no one has it all together all the time. We are all fond of the idea, however false it is, that we are self-sufficient and we don’t ever need help. (Is this why Trump wins support?) Then, come a crisis, we actually prefer to go it alone, thinking we are very strong for doing so.
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The tone deafness of strident pro-choice activists

December 7, 2015 by Andrea Mrozek Leave a Comment

Faye already commented on the Scandal episode. This article does so again, from the perspective of a woman who had an abortion. I thought it was pretty worthwhile to read her perspective, since only but rarely does real-life experience match up with the Hollywood version. (And yes, that’s true whether the story line is pro-life or pro-choice.)

With this episode of Scandal, my heart broke not only because of the abortion experienced by a character I’ve come to like but also because of the soundtrack. To play a beautiful Christmas hymn about easily the most famously celebrated birth in history during a scene that terminates a pregnancy is distasteful. “Silent Night, holy night / All is calm, all is bright / Round yon virgin Mother and Child / Holy infant so tender and mild / Sleep in heavenly peace.” I’m sure the playing of this song during this scene was intentional, politically driven, and meant to stir things up. But I wonder if the writers and producers of this show realize how incredibly damaging images such as these can be to post-abortive women, causing reactions such as flashbacks, nightmares, or increased anxiety.

 

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