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September 23, 2008 by Andrea Mrozek 3 Comments

There’s an art to blogging. You could unearth stories the mainstream media is not getting. You could piece together inaccuracies. You could connect the dots between reported events using your personal sources.

Or, you could link to a piece you already wrote, in the Post today. I believe it’s called “circular referencing.” (This piece will live permanently in our Notable Columns section, here.)

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Update: A friendly pro-lifer, well, two, to be perfectly honest, have raised objections to this:

To be fair, pro-lifers have not played their hand well, either. Mashing themselves between homemade sandwich boards and roaming the streets outside clinics has only ensured a place on the fringe beside conspiracy theorists adamant that 9/11 was an inside job.”

Why would this activity be so misplaced, so fringe, given what Paglia aptly identifies? Pro-lifers protesting outside clinics are only responding to the institutional death machines—in this here civilized society of ours.
“Sandwiched” pro-lifers outside clinics are responding bravely to the truth that Paglia knows.
So why did I write that then? In part, because that is how the mainstream media perceives those protesting, day in day out. I was thinking expressly of signs that read “Abortion is murder”–and how those do fall on deaf ears these days, simply because it’s been repeated too many times. It’s like warning labels on cigarette packages–they lose their potency when seen too many times. That doesn’t mean that some people won’t respond to them, though.
I think most every anti-abortion protest is a good one—and this will all come together in some fruitful, meaningful way (with a severe reduction in the number of abortions and a newly awakened, invigorated culture) sooner rather than later. Sandwiched pro-lifers: I’m sorry I disparaged your efforts.

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Rebecca says: I’m with Andrea on the counter-productive nature of sandwich boards, “abortion is murder,” and language such as “abortuaries.” Not because of inaccuracy – and if you’re talking only to people who already are prolife, all this is fine. But the reality is, for moderates and undecideds, let alone “choice” activists, this is tantamount to holding a sign saying “I am an extremist, do not take me seriously” over your head. Is your objective to be in the right, while ensuring that you’ll be written off? Or is your objective to persuade even one person to change his mind, to reconsider the received wisdom, to open up her heart to the possibility that the fetus in her womb is more than a clump of cells, akin to an appendix, to be destroyed if troublesome?

I understand the outrage and conviction and passion; I really do. But we’ll change how our society treats unborn babies (and other vulnerable people) by engaging other Canadians in debate and discussion, by appealing to their morals and ethics and intellects and feelings. This won’t happen if we alienate them even before we open our mouths, or if we make it easy for them to write us off as nutcases.

Having said all this, there is only so much one side can do to generate thoughtful and respectful discussion, and Camille Paglia aside, there is far too little of that on the pro-choice side.

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Brigitte agrees: I don’t mean to offend (really, I don’t), but you ought to see it from the casual outsider’s point of view. Protesters usually have loser dust all over them. And no amount of complaining will change that. It doesn’t necessarily mean protests are useless. But they aren’t nearly as useful as protesters want to believe.

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Andrea adds: Well. I do think a sign of protest on our dead quiet streets (no pun intended) can offer some new ideas to some people. And for me personally, it is a reminder that not everyone is apathetic, which is encouraging. A blog isn’t changing anyone’s mind either–nothing does, all on its own. I have tended to think that almost anyone being active on the issue helps change the culture. And that part of the column was not intended to disparage those protesting on the streets, but rather to think about what signs say–what might be more effective. I suppose given the pro-abortion status quo we’re all at loose ends for that answer. Protestors are not losers. How many massive changes worldwide were started because one person stuck their neck out? Countless.

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Rebecca comes back: One way to change minds is to challenge people’s preconceived (no pun intended) ideas. That’s one of the reasons why I was, and remain, so excited by PWPL; the site is testimony to the fact that you don’t need to be a Christian, a fundamentalist, or religious at all to believe in the sanctity of life; you can be a mother, or not, and yet recognize that a life begins when a child is conceived, not at some arbitrary later point in its development; you can live your life, vote, worship, and go about your business in any number of ways while believing that a culture of death is harmful to all of us, and that a society that truly empowers and values women will not perpetrate what has been described as the ultimate act of violence against women.

When I was younger I subscribed to the dogma I was taught: that pro-lifers are trying to impose patriarchal values on women, that they think sex is evil, that they seek to deny women the freedoms enjoyed by men, and so on. I tuned out friends and strangers alike who said that “abortion stops a beating heart.” The first crack in my certainty occurred when a mentor I respected, a former social worker, told me she had sleepless nights from time to time when she thought of the women she had helped obtain abortions. This gave me pause; someone who was in many ways kindred, whom I could not dismiss as uneducated, or unenlightened, did not argue with me, but simply shared something that made me reevaluate her, and my beliefs, and myself. She shook up the way I saw the whole issue.

Protestors are certainly not apathetic, and expose themselves to ridicule and harrassment and abuse for the sake of their principles, which is admirable. And they challenge those of us who agree with them, and make us ask ourselves if we could be doing more. But every time I walked by them when I was younger, they did not challenge my assumptions, they reaffirmed them, and I am sure I’m not the only person who has experienced that.

Filed Under: All Posts Tagged With: National Post, Shelley Gavigan, Thank you Camille Paglia

Morgentaler symposium summary

January 31, 2008 by Andrea Mrozek Leave a Comment

Sorry about the delay on this. Here are my thoughts about the Morgentaler and the law conference I attended on Friday last week.

Toronto-January 25, 2008: Henry Morgentaler is a frail old man, who walks with some difficulty and needs help on stairs. He sat at the front of a lecture hall at the University of Toronto’s prestigious law school – some 200 students, doctors, activists and lay people in the audience. The average age was probably mid to late 20s, though there were also a fair number of grey heads in the crowd.

Vicki Saporta, president and CEO of the National Abortion Federation opened the event, with the dean of the University of Toronto’s law school, Mayo Moran, looking on. Saporta lauded the efforts of Morgentaler (and gave him a hug) but remained concerned about further anti-choice action, and limits on access.

And access became the most common thread of discussion for many of the speakers: Abortion should be “available, accessible and acceptable” (Joanna Erdman’s phrase, UofT faculty of law). After Saporta, Colleen Flood, Canada Research Chair in Health Law and Policy introduced Morgentaler.

And so a standing ovation later, the man himself rose to speak. Morgentaler’s voice was weak; the words predictable. He is proud of his efforts. “I believe the world is a kinder, gentler place because women have the right to make choices,” he said. His work

marks a milestone in the emancipation of women…  

After he was done, another standing ovation – pro-choicers herald the presence of Morgentaler as if it was 1950 and Elvis Presley were in the building – it’s all weak knees and breathy excitement merely to be near him.

The morning was devoted largely to… you guessed it – access. Lorraine Weinrib, faculty of law at the University of Toronto, mused about how doctors are protected from performing or referring for abortions. “How did it come to be about protection for doctors, not women,” she asked. She also spoke about how the Morgentaler decision was the first time that she heard the sentiment expressed publicly that

women have lives, women have jobs, women have aspirations that are more important than an unwanted pregnancy.

Shelley Gavigan of Osgoode Hall Law School appeared nervous throughout her talk and acknowledged at the end that perhaps pro-choicers would be wise to acknowledge the “dominant ideology” of the unborn child:

If you must acknowledge the discourse of the unborn child,” she said, “if we must reinsert the vernacular of the unborn into the discourse, [then the] pregnant woman and the unborn child speak with one voice and that voice is hers.

Dawn Fowler of the NAF emphasized how few late-term abortions happen in Canada for social reasons. But then a particularly enthusiastic pro-abortion conferee from Holland stood up to ask this:

Sometimes women need abortions after 24 weeks, even for social reasons, and so why doesn’t Canada offer this?

Fowler replied that this lack of access is “physician driven.”

Garson Romalis, abortion provider in BC, spoke of his own work as saving women’s lives with some particularly distressing examples of a woman with six feet of bowel outside her body, who he was able to save, another jaundiced with infection, but she died. He spoke of how unique his specialty is because women are so completely grateful. “It is only my work where women say not only ‘thank you,’ but also ‘thank you for what you do.'”

And there were also interesting offline discussions: A very young woman from Canadians for Choice explained how, in spite of good access to clinics in the Toronto area, many women still self-abort. “You can find out how on the internet,” she said. Her concern? That there is still stigma attached to abortion, so women won’t come in to the clinic. I asked her how she hoped to combat the stigma – a genuine question, which was met with confusion. She reverted back to… access. “Some women just can’t get to a clinic,” she said, “What if you live in Scarborough [a suburb of Toronto] and can’t afford the bus ticket to Toronto?”

I was not able to stay and listen to the last session, which included Heather Mallick, journalist and Carolyn Bennett, Member of Parliament. But simply seeing Mallick up close reminded me that the person behind written vitriol might be fun – Mallick made a joke in the sunny lunchroom that she would stand in one of the rays and get a tan. It reminded me of a quote from Margaret Thatcher:

It pays to know the enemy – not least because at some time you may have the opportunity to turn him into a friend.

And all the old-guard feminists rolled their eyes and said “turn her, turn her into a friend… are you saying women can’t be perfectly good enemies?”

I remain convinced that most pro-choice young women are more open to a pro-life message than we currently hope. The empty rhetoric at the conference, the neutral tones of the discussion, the complete and total failure to acknowledge the difficulty of having an abortion and in many cases, the deep and lasting pain for women – it all makes me more convinced of this than I ever was before.

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Brigitte adds: Excuse me for rolling my eyes all the way to my shoulder blades, but really. Worrying about the price of a bus ticket from Scarborough to Toronto when between 4 and 5 MILLION Canadians have no access to a family physician is more than a little déplacé. It’s almost obscene.

Filed Under: All Posts Tagged With: Colleen Flood, Dawn Fowler, Garson Romalis, Heather Mallick, Henry Morgentaler, Shelley Gavigan, Vicki Saporta

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