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Two Quebec staples

September 26, 2008 by Tanya Zaleski 1 Comment

Steamés and $7 a day daycare.

I was sitting on a terrace yesterday enjoying lunch of hot-dogs and fries with my daughter (because, apparently, Listeria doesn’t scare me one bit). Along came a 50-something woman, asking if she could share our table. “But of course!”

The conversation quickly turned to childcare. (For some reason, she believed a woman having a weekday lunch with her 3-year-old could be some sort of a resource.) This woman’s daughter is looking for a daycare for six-month-old twins, but keeps encountering waiting lists up to 4 years long.

I suggest: “Why not enroll them in private daycare and pay $30 a day only to get it all back on her income tax?”

She comes back with: “Oh, well she and her spouse make too much annually to qualify to get any money back.”

Yes, of course. When it comes to daycare, it’s deplorable to think that a family making 6 figures should have to pay more than $1,820 a year per child. Thank goodness even those families receive $100 a month per child under 6 in childcare benefits. How ever would they make ends meet?

And there you have it. Another example of how enviable our childcare system is in Quebec.

Filed Under: All Posts Tagged With: $7 a day, Daycare, Quebec

Wooing the female crunchy con

September 26, 2008 by Andrea Mrozek 2 Comments

Kris Sims writes this about “urban aprons” in today’s Post. She makes the claim that there is a fair amount in Harper’s electioneering meant to woo this vote. If you recall “Zoe”–she was the type of urban female voter the Harper government decided they would never win–Sims calls this type of voter Zoe’s older sister, or the “urban apron vote.”

That’s right: the federal Conservatives want the Urban Apron vote — they just aren’t admitting it out loud. The Prime Minister has been making announcements about health, safety and product regulation throughout his extended stay in minority government, often getting his non-threatening Milhouse of a Health Care Minister, Tony Clement, to deliver the feel-good news.

She lists a bunch of things the Conservatives are promising–I admit, I’ve heard of none of them and in my experience, if you are Zoe’s older sister, you’re not listening, either. It is just too “uncool” to vote Conservative for many in this downtown core. (I’m writing from Toronto today. Yesterday I gave a pro-life talk at beautiful Hart House at UofT–just down the way there was some sort of organic food fair, and Mayor Miller was outside. For the organic food, not the pro-life stuff. Sigh.)

Filed Under: All Posts Tagged With: election canada, Kris Sims

Like, there are other topics?

September 25, 2008 by Brigitte Pellerin 1 Comment

Katie Couric interviews Sarah Palin, and as far as I can tell does not ask ONE single question about sex, pregnancy or abortion. I’m impressed…


Watch CBS Videos Online

Filed Under: All Posts Tagged With: Katie Couric, Sarah Palin

Dishonest – and dumb – in either language

September 24, 2008 by Brigitte Pellerin Leave a Comment

A Liberal ad on a woman’s right to choose.

Citizen [citizen?!?] Rosalie says, “I’m 31 years old and and I can’t conceive a return to 1950’s laws”. In the original: “J’ai 31 ans puis je peux pas concevoir qu’on retourne à des lois des années 50”. Concevoir? Conceive? Hello? Don’t they have editors over at the Liberal party, or do they enjoy looking dishonest and stupid?

Wow. I’m, er, slightly older than 31 years old and I can’t imagine a sillier ad on such a non-issue. Seriously – the only people NOT talking about abortion are the Conservatives…

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Rebecca wonders: My French is pretty rusty, but it sounded like she described herself as “panicking.” Wow. Will the people who BBQd Lawrence Summers for suggesting that maybe, just maybe, women don’t enjoy high level math studies to precisely the same degree as men, now freak out at the Liberals, who appear to think that we’re driven to fainting spells and shortness of breath at the suggestion of a policy debate?

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Andrea is concerned because every time I come to PWPL she begins talking–without my clicking play. I therefore keep hearing how she just doesn’t understand how abortion and the rights of the fetus have come back to haunt her in 2008–short answer, my 31-year-old friend–because those questions never went away. In any event, they aren’t present in the political debate today by any stretch of the imagination. She is fear mongering about a bill that has died–C-484, the Unborn Victims of Violence bill–and that Stéphane Dion, the leader in whom she puts her faith–was not present to vote against. When I consider the abortion rate in Quebec, significantly higher than the rest of Canada–this is a seriously “off” ad, in poor taste, politically dishonest, and playing on a deplorable social situation in that province.

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Tanya thinks this is again all part of Stéphane Dion’s ONLY campaign strategy. And someone should sit this 31-year old Québécoise down and explain that the Liberals were the only party to table a private member’s bill this past year in efforts to further restrict access to abortion. “Oh! Not Stéphane Dion’s Liberals!” Yes. I’m afraid so.

Filed Under: All Posts Tagged With: Citizen Rosalie, hidden agenda, Liberals

Classism (and the inappropriate use of hairspray)

September 24, 2008 by Andrea Mrozek 1 Comment

Like this analysis from George Jonas in today’s Post.  

It isn’t Governor Palin’s sex that bothers them. Nor is it her politics. What they cannot abide is what they see as her class. Europeans and Asians tend to think of America as a classless society. No doubt, compared to old Europe and old Asia it is. But not entirely. The clamour we now hear surrounding Governor Palin’s candidacy for vice-president on the Republican ticket isn’t the sound of gender- but class-warfare. What makes contemporary Western-style class war confusing is that the upper classes are lined up Left and the lower classes Right.

He goes on to say:

Resign yourselves to the next inhabitant of the White House having an atrocious hairdo.

Great piece, one question though. (Here at PWPL we don’t shy away from the tough ones): What is so wrong with Sarah Palin’s hair?

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Brigitte is having palpitations: Aaaargh! It looks like a sticky helmet! I love the woman, but I do wish she let her hair fall nicely on her shoulders instead…

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Andrea defends Sarah’s hair: That’s the thing–I’ve seen plenty of photos where her hair does just that–falls nicely on her shoulders. I’ve also become accustomed to an overuse of hairspray by our female friends south of the border. I classify it as a “cultural difference” of which I should be tolerant.

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Rebecca adds: A lot of the time, her hairdo reminds me of the “twist into ponytail, then leave in a knot so the baby can’t blow his nose in your hair” fashion so popular with, well, me.

 

Since when did the Jonas Brothers care about politics? Oh wait …

Filed Under: All Posts Tagged With: George Jonas, Sarah Palin

Hockey moms for truth

September 24, 2008 by Andrea Mrozek Leave a Comment

[youtube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=URIypadX3n0]

It was only a matter of time before this important information saw the light of day.

(Courtesy of The Shotgun.)

Filed Under: All Posts Tagged With: hockey, Sarah Palin

Link to a great post

September 24, 2008 by Véronique Bergeron Leave a Comment

We’ve been having these rather intellectual discussions lately on utility versus function: whether or not it is “reasonable” to bring up children with disabilities and whether or not elderly people suffering from dementia have a duty to die. Then you go and read this, from one of my favorite blogs, and everything makes sense.

Filed Under: All Posts Tagged With: disability, purpose, reason

I love it…

September 23, 2008 by Brigitte Pellerin Leave a Comment

… when liberals (and Liberals) silence their women. It’s so dashed progressive.

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Andrea adds: The story notes that “Krieber can’t be relied upon stick to the campaign script.”

Because that script has, er, been working so well thus far? Getting off of it seems like the only positive out. But they aren’t silencing Krieber because she’s a she. If Krieber were running, they’d silence Dion. (At this point, I bet some are wishing they could do just that.)

Filed Under: All Posts Tagged With: Janine Krieber, Stephane Dion

Easy blogging

September 23, 2008 by Andrea Mrozek 3 Comments

There’s an art to blogging. You could unearth stories the mainstream media is not getting. You could piece together inaccuracies. You could connect the dots between reported events using your personal sources.

Or, you could link to a piece you already wrote, in the Post today. I believe it’s called “circular referencing.” (This piece will live permanently in our Notable Columns section, here.)

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Update: A friendly pro-lifer, well, two, to be perfectly honest, have raised objections to this:

To be fair, pro-lifers have not played their hand well, either. Mashing themselves between homemade sandwich boards and roaming the streets outside clinics has only ensured a place on the fringe beside conspiracy theorists adamant that 9/11 was an inside job.”

Why would this activity be so misplaced, so fringe, given what Paglia aptly identifies? Pro-lifers protesting outside clinics are only responding to the institutional death machines—in this here civilized society of ours.
“Sandwiched” pro-lifers outside clinics are responding bravely to the truth that Paglia knows.
So why did I write that then? In part, because that is how the mainstream media perceives those protesting, day in day out. I was thinking expressly of signs that read “Abortion is murder”–and how those do fall on deaf ears these days, simply because it’s been repeated too many times. It’s like warning labels on cigarette packages–they lose their potency when seen too many times. That doesn’t mean that some people won’t respond to them, though.
I think most every anti-abortion protest is a good one—and this will all come together in some fruitful, meaningful way (with a severe reduction in the number of abortions and a newly awakened, invigorated culture) sooner rather than later. Sandwiched pro-lifers: I’m sorry I disparaged your efforts.

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Rebecca says: I’m with Andrea on the counter-productive nature of sandwich boards, “abortion is murder,” and language such as “abortuaries.” Not because of inaccuracy – and if you’re talking only to people who already are prolife, all this is fine. But the reality is, for moderates and undecideds, let alone “choice” activists, this is tantamount to holding a sign saying “I am an extremist, do not take me seriously” over your head. Is your objective to be in the right, while ensuring that you’ll be written off? Or is your objective to persuade even one person to change his mind, to reconsider the received wisdom, to open up her heart to the possibility that the fetus in her womb is more than a clump of cells, akin to an appendix, to be destroyed if troublesome?

I understand the outrage and conviction and passion; I really do. But we’ll change how our society treats unborn babies (and other vulnerable people) by engaging other Canadians in debate and discussion, by appealing to their morals and ethics and intellects and feelings. This won’t happen if we alienate them even before we open our mouths, or if we make it easy for them to write us off as nutcases.

Having said all this, there is only so much one side can do to generate thoughtful and respectful discussion, and Camille Paglia aside, there is far too little of that on the pro-choice side.

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Brigitte agrees: I don’t mean to offend (really, I don’t), but you ought to see it from the casual outsider’s point of view. Protesters usually have loser dust all over them. And no amount of complaining will change that. It doesn’t necessarily mean protests are useless. But they aren’t nearly as useful as protesters want to believe.

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Andrea adds: Well. I do think a sign of protest on our dead quiet streets (no pun intended) can offer some new ideas to some people. And for me personally, it is a reminder that not everyone is apathetic, which is encouraging. A blog isn’t changing anyone’s mind either–nothing does, all on its own. I have tended to think that almost anyone being active on the issue helps change the culture. And that part of the column was not intended to disparage those protesting on the streets, but rather to think about what signs say–what might be more effective. I suppose given the pro-abortion status quo we’re all at loose ends for that answer. Protestors are not losers. How many massive changes worldwide were started because one person stuck their neck out? Countless.

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Rebecca comes back: One way to change minds is to challenge people’s preconceived (no pun intended) ideas. That’s one of the reasons why I was, and remain, so excited by PWPL; the site is testimony to the fact that you don’t need to be a Christian, a fundamentalist, or religious at all to believe in the sanctity of life; you can be a mother, or not, and yet recognize that a life begins when a child is conceived, not at some arbitrary later point in its development; you can live your life, vote, worship, and go about your business in any number of ways while believing that a culture of death is harmful to all of us, and that a society that truly empowers and values women will not perpetrate what has been described as the ultimate act of violence against women.

When I was younger I subscribed to the dogma I was taught: that pro-lifers are trying to impose patriarchal values on women, that they think sex is evil, that they seek to deny women the freedoms enjoyed by men, and so on. I tuned out friends and strangers alike who said that “abortion stops a beating heart.” The first crack in my certainty occurred when a mentor I respected, a former social worker, told me she had sleepless nights from time to time when she thought of the women she had helped obtain abortions. This gave me pause; someone who was in many ways kindred, whom I could not dismiss as uneducated, or unenlightened, did not argue with me, but simply shared something that made me reevaluate her, and my beliefs, and myself. She shook up the way I saw the whole issue.

Protestors are certainly not apathetic, and expose themselves to ridicule and harrassment and abuse for the sake of their principles, which is admirable. And they challenge those of us who agree with them, and make us ask ourselves if we could be doing more. But every time I walked by them when I was younger, they did not challenge my assumptions, they reaffirmed them, and I am sure I’m not the only person who has experienced that.

Filed Under: All Posts Tagged With: National Post, Shelley Gavigan, Thank you Camille Paglia

She started it!

September 22, 2008 by Andrea Mrozek 2 Comments

Oi ve. Some of these media commentators, Heather Mallick first and foremost, are like little kids.

The slurs continue. Here, and here we read about threats made against Heather Mallick, the result of her now infamous Mighty Wind column.  I decry those threats. But I can’t help but think that Mallick set the tone and can’t now pretend she is above the fray. Her words–certainly not an example of brave decorum in an otherwise alarmist world:

Palin has a toned-down version of the porn actress look favoured by this decade’s woman, the overtreated hair, puffy lips and permanently alarmed expression. Bristol has what is known in Britain as the look of the teen mum, the “pramface.” Husband Todd looks like a roughneck; Track, heading off to Iraq, appears terrified. They claim to be family obsessed while being studiously terrible at parenting. What normal father would want Levi “I’m a fuckin’ redneck” Johnson prodding his daughter?”

Her response to the threats? She is quoted here as saying:

The responses to my column proved me correct about the extreme right in the United States: they have a great misogynist rage in them,” Mallick said in an interview from Toronto on Saturday.”

Not liking Heather Mallick does not constitute misogyny. If that’s the case–then the better part of Canada is misogynist, too.

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Rebecca adds: “What normal father would want Levi “I’m a fuckin’ redneck” Johnson prodding his daughter?”

Again, I am struck by how crass and derisive the language the loony left uses to describe sex is. Has any conservative commentator characterized a consensual relationship in such vulgar terms? Aren’t we supposed to be the uptight prudes, while they are all in favour of anything at all, as long as it’s consensual?

Filed Under: All Posts Tagged With: CBC, Heather Mallick, misogyny, Van Susteren

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